Focus on how to solve a problem, rather than whining at the unfairness for the problem to have befallen on you in hopes someone will see the distress of your whining and swoop in themselves to solve the problem for you themselves.
For some, things will just keep throwing you down and endlessly keep on kicking you as you're down no matter what. And you just to have fight your way to stand back up, and in turn punch down at whatever is throwing you down and keep kicking you when you're down to make sure it stays down. And do the same at each gradual thing that comes along that does the same to you.
Focus on yourself in how you progress gradually, rather than how your progress strictly measures up to the progress of others. (Although this probably doesn't apply in the harsh reality that your own progress is strictly dependent and can be obstructed if your progress is in competition with that in relative of others. The real world just plain sucks).
What goes up, will inevitably come back down. Whoever you have to step on when you go up, you will be at their mercy when you go down.
The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.
Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.