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900 likes on tinder in a week..


Very surprised with the results. I've pushed my anxiety aside and tried tinder for the first time. I have about 900 likes and 75 matches in 6 days. That opened my eyes on how anxiety messed with my head and made me believe I was unattractive when that is clearly not the case

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Congrats.

You seem like an awesome person going by post's.
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Congrats.

You seem like an awesome person going by post's.
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Congrats.
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Congrats.
What did you post on Tinder?
Just one photo of me that I use in my resume as well, and a boring bio talking about compassion and my interest in writing tbh...

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How are you gonna choose ? are they all good un's : /

To be frank, most of the texts I've been getting are all talking about friends with benefits or one night stands, which aren't my cup of tea. I'm just using tinder as a means to put myself out there and overcome my anxiety a bit. It definitely wasnt as bad as I thought it'd be. Will be nice if I do find someone on a similar page personality and commitment wise..

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You're attractive young lady little cub what did you expect lol. Glad it helped your confidence though .

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You're attractive young lady little cub what did you expect lol. Glad it helped your confidence though .
you are the sweetest. ty Kevin

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