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Join Date: Sep 2010
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Age: 32
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Pragmatism Is Stupid
If there's one ideology I can't stand above all others, it's pragmatism.
People just brutally assert that what they're doing is practical, or what you're doing isn't, but they never consider that what's practical depends on what you want to achieve.
I think this is the core of not just social anxiety, but social decay and dysfunction in general. Rather than talk about what matters, people simply want to exercise themselves to get things done, and they pressure others to conform behind appeals to emotion, popularity, misery, and absurdity. They don't consider that different people are different, so everyone doesn't automatically want to do the same thing.
You usually hear after this that people have problems with authority, but what's really happening is authority just has problems with people. Authority insists on objectifying people into tools so authority can get stuff done.
I suppose socially anxious people have experienced this quite often because we get intimidated easily, and over time, people learn that we're intimidated, so they do it again and again.
If there's one ideology I could purge from personal psyche, it would be pragmatism. That way, people don't simply presume it's OK to mandate that others participate in social activities. Instead, they realize that it's up to each person to get involved. Anything less than unanimous consent is coercion.
That's another thing. Pragmatists get burden of proof backwards on purpose as well, claiming that if you don't go along, then you're coercing everyone else for holding them back. They really don't care, and have this pent up drive to constantly do battle in dominating leadership among others, and of course, they want you to crack in telling them to just stop so you make a fool of yourself.
Stupid pragmatists.