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Love = sexy body + good/confident personality


What do you think?
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post #2 of 27 (permalink) Old 11-03-2019, 12:31 PM
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In my opinion (opinions vary and everyone has an opinion).

Love = chemistry.

Could be that you look similar, act similar which creates that chemistry.

But in saying that no relationship is perfect and can argue which in some cases can make the bond / chemistry stronger as make up afterwards.
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as a Billy Goat.
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But this is a definition of Love that makes sense....



Comes from the Bible,

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

But I think is slightly modified from the Bible version in video clip above.
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Dear oh dear.
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Pretty much mate.
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Pretty much mate.
What you said reminded me of what he would say.
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It's all about being big mouthed (=self confidence).

"Rome will lose the faith and become the seat of the antichrist." ~ Our Lady of La Salette
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post #12 of 27 (permalink) Old 11-03-2019, 02:19 PM Thread Starter
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Seriously you all can you grow up and debate like adults?
This question is very debatable and informative, if you don't have anything to say then don't post.
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post #13 of 27 (permalink) Old 11-03-2019, 02:20 PM
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Well, the vast majority of people do not have sexy bodies nor do they have good personalities and yet they find love, so I'm gonna say passable social skills and realistic expectations is all you really need.
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Seriously you all can you grow up and debate like adults?
This question is very debatable and informative, if you don't have anything to say then don't post.
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We are the adults.

You seriously expect a reply with an opening post like that. What's wrong with you?
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Sorry OP - I'll just ignore this thread. Knock yourselves out.
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Love is a universal energy that we as humans experience thru chemicals and you can also experience it when out of body. Love isn't there because of the chemicals, the chemicals are there because of love. Love, it's fantastic!
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I think having a sexy body is society's standards. Let's be real: Most people {both males and females} don't have slamming super model body. If anything most of us are insecure. This is societies definition of sexiness. You don't have to have a "sexy body" to find love. Sexy could be an intelligence not just a physical appearance. I found that out from checking out Tarot Pick a Card readings.

General speaking love is in the eyes of the beholder. The same for sexiness. I can't speak for everyone but if someone believe that love equal having a sexy body, good confident and a personality then that is on them. Everyone is different and have different love standards.

What is your opinion @Canyoufeelit ?
What do you believe for yourself? This is most important unless you want to know what society say. I think that is obvious.
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What do you think?
I think that's a superficial view of love.

When the person who you fell for because of their sexy body and confident personality has seen their body withered by time and ravaged by years of illness and when their confidence has been knocked by a thousand setbacks in life are you still there alongside them living life with them, supporting them and trying your damn best to bring joy in to their life? If you are that's love.

More superficial attraction is exciting and forms a part of the majority of romantic relationships but should never be confused with love itself which is all about loving in a deeper, more meaningful way.

"The really important kind of freedom involves attention, and awareness, and discipline, and effort, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them, over and over, in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day. That is real freedom. The alternative is unconsciousness, the default setting, the "rat race" - the constant gnawing sense of having had and lost some infinite thing." (David Foster Wallace)
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Well, I mean to some degree I think probably a pleasing appearance is probably going to make people more determined to find something they like about you so looking good doesn't hurt.

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None of these things from that formula applies to me...

Even shy people can be sassy sometimes...
I'll put drunk raccoon in my signature as well, because I CAN...
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