ssɐlƃ ƃuᴉʞool ǝɥʇ ɥƃnoɹɥ┴
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Florida, Oosa
People are free to blame whoever they want, the key here is if others will care. I don't think, in general, after a person reaches a certain age people in general are going to care. I mean, in certain instances they certainly will, such as on this thread, or in a subject regarding how your parents behaved. But, say for example, you are at work and are not keeping up, you are a 33 year old and tell your boss and coworkers that it is your parents fault that you are unable to keep up with the workflow, then they are not going to likely care how your parents raised you. Or, say you are unable to keep up with the rent, and you explain to your landlord that you were never taught finances by your parents, they are not likely to care.
It is all situational, but in general I don't think many people will care after you reach a certain age. This doesn't mean that the person is wrong, it just means that most people are not going to be interested in listening to them. I think past a certain age, you lose a lot of the support you had when you were younger, and society in general expects you to perform your tasks without excuse. Once you are in your twenties, this seems to happen.
Live and let live
"Whoever fights monsters should
see to it that in the process he does not become a
monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss,
the abyss will gaze back into you."