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post #1 of 30 (permalink) Old 01-24-2021, 08:28 AM Thread Starter
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How difficult are you? (Test)


I took the Difficult person test, and got curious how people score.

Explanation of Facets:
Callousness is characterized by lacking empathy or concern for others. People high in callousness typically have deficits in genuine social sentiments and are often experienced by others as coarsely uncivil. In other words, they often make people feel uncomfortable.

Grandiosity can be described as having a grandiose sense of self-importance and the thought that one is better than others. People high in grandiosity often tout their abilities and their accomplishments while downplaying the contributions of others. They tend to put themselves on a pedestal and have a sense of entitlement about them.

Aggressiveness is the tendency to behave rudely and with hostility toward others. Aggressiveness may be doubly hurtful to others if combined with callousness, since the aggressive person may thus be both intimidating and unfeeling in their demeanor.

Suspicion is the tendency to harbor a strong and unreasoning distrust of others. Suspicious people often question the motives of even those who act loyally and devotedly toward them. Such people are often reluctant to open up to others and may interpret kind-hearted gestures as attempts to deceive them.

Manipulativeness is the inclination to exploit others to derive benefits for oneself. Manipulative people take other people for granted and use them to realize their own wishes and goals, thinking little of interpersonal reciprocity or the rights of others. Such people often exhaust and frustrate those around them, since they give little in return for the services and favors they extract from others.

Dominance is the tendency to put on airs of superiority and talk down to others. Domineering individuals have a strong desire to be seen as leaders and often react with combativeness when they cannot get what they want. They frustrate others by meddling in their affairs and with their attempts to control the decisions of those around them.

Risk-taking is the propensity to engage in risky behavior for the sake of experiencing thrills. People high in this trait impulsively seek sensations to overcome boredom, and often get pleasure from shocking others with their adventures and stunts. Risk-takers often make those around them ill at ease since their actions may have consequences for others as well as themselves.
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Not surprisingly, I'm not difficult to get along with (Not bragging, just.. being a people pleaser that is obvious to me). Not surprisingly, the vast majority on the Norwegian forum I'm quitting score super high on aggressiveness. I'm guessing there will be more diversity here
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I got this: You are an easy person to get along with (20.71%).

Apparently I have moderate levels of aggressiveness - I think this is just due to some of the things I am forced to do for my job. Sometimes I have to force myself to be more aggressive than I would normally be inclined to want be because it's a very competitive environment. Which I'm not really comfortable with but it is what it is.
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I would have scored as much less easy a few years back tho

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There are a lot of cool tests on this site. We should start a general tests thread for people to share their results for any of these various tests. I would do it but I lack motivation and initiative.

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You are an easy person to get along with (29.29%).
Haha that is so not true. I had difficulty with how some of the questions were worded as well though. Also it seems to be testing for dark triad personality traits more than anything and many people with those traits are easy for people to get along with, at least superficially. Though I don't tend to get on with people like that.


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You are an easy person to get along with (22.86%).

I got zero on grandiosity and zero on dominance. Nothing I didn't already know

the questions were repetitive though it seemed.
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You are an easy person to get along with (29.29%).
Haha that is so not true.
I think it is true though if people accepted you as you are & not what they think you should be.
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I think it is true though if people accepted you as you are & not what they think you should be.
Probably would help avoid some things/arguments, but I'm not the best with social stuff anyway.

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I think, in fact, I'm more difficult to get along with than this, but not for any of the reasons on the test. I think I'm difficult for other people to understand, and therefore frustrating to deal with at times. I just happen to be easy going.

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You are a somewhat difficult person to get along with (45%).

Only 45%?
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43% but I somewhat knew this already hence I keep this from anyone and everyone.
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43% but I somewhat knew this already hence I keep this from anyone and everyone.
I try not to display it too much but it seems to come out when I'm provoked. Which I think can be a normal reaction, especially if having to deal with people who think that they can easily take advantage and it builds up over time.
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^^ Easy with that aggression though ? : /
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