Am I being a prick?
At work I have a few people that have taken an interest to talking to me, but I only have interest in being friends with one or two of them because we play video games together. I still talk to them all at work and try to initiate conversation, but I am not interested in pursuing a friendship.
One guy took an interest in trying to be my friend out of nowhere. He asks me random questions all the time and had me put my number in his phone. He texts me from time to time, but I don't really see the point in starting a conversation because he only answers with one to two word replies. I went to a party he invited me to, it seems we have zero similar interests.
Another person is at least twice my age and seems to seek me out specifically at work. He has bought me a few gifts which I kind of found off putting and tried to invite me out for drinks, which I declined. He made a note that he's tried to invite me out for several things and I keep declining. Maybe I am misreading the situation and he wants to be friends, but he is probably in his mid 40s, I am a girl in my early 20s.
I think my coworkers think I'm an aloof prick, which I probably am, but I don't want to come off as one. I have trouble sometimes reading social situations and have trouble initiating them too. I just really have no interest in being friends with some of the above people but I don't wanna be a dick about it