Would you rather be cured of SA (but never have a bg/gf) or have an amazing BF/GF?? - Social Anxiety Forum
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Would you rather be cured of SA (but never have a bg/gf) or have an amazing BF/GF??


I would rather be cured of SA. Having a cool female in my life is great, but being able to say what I want without second thoughts would be so much better.
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All of you always say "be cured of SA" but there is no "cured about the things that causes you SA" that is different.

- I now issue the call, are you ready to fight
Fight all together as one for the right to be free once again
Tonight we will win

I can see by the look that you have in your eyes
You came here for metal, to fight and to die
Defenders of Steel now we are home

Fight for the kingdom bound for glory
Armed with a heart of steel
I swear by the Brothers who stand before me
To no man shall I kneel
Their blood is upon my steel
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All of you always say "be cured of SA" but there is no "cured about the things that causes you SA" that is different.
I don't know what you mean.
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I don't know what you mean.
Well, it's simple, most of people here write stuff like "I am ugly" right ? That probably causes their social anxiety. Now, in your options there is the option of not having social anxiety, but not the option of becoming good looking (for example). Now you understand ?

The optiong of being cured of SA but not of thing that might cause it.

- I now issue the call, are you ready to fight
Fight all together as one for the right to be free once again
Tonight we will win

I can see by the look that you have in your eyes
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cured of sa. even with a great partner, I would still have to deal with the anxiety at work and what not.
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There's nothing I could ever want more than to be cured. Nothing. I honestly feel like I could decide to let people die if it would magically mean being cured. I doubt I would, but it would be a very tough decision.

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Cured of SA, because then I'd be able to go out there and get what I want. I'd be more appealing to others and I just might be happier.


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All of you always say "be cured of SA" but there is no "cured about the things that causes you SA" that is different.
I think that when you get "cured" of SA, those things that triggered it would no longer affect you in that manner. If not, I don't think one can be considered cured.


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Unless the girl is Megan Fox or someone with all the same interests as me, I'd much much rather be cured of SAS and depression. Having a great girl would be nice, but whats life if its nothing but hell and wishing you were dead?
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Unless the girl is Megan Fox or someone with all the same interests as me
You have all the same interests as Megan Fox?


On Toppic: Forget a 9/10 chick, get over SA and get a 10/10 chick.
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You have all the same interests as Megan Fox?


On Toppic: Forget a 9/10 chick, get over SA and get a 10/10 chick.
No, no that's not what I meant. She would just have to look that good plus my interests which Megan doesn't have. She isn't the hottest girl but its 3 AM here, half asleep and figured everyone would get my reference to one of top looking and best known girls.
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No, no that's not what I meant. She would just have to look that good plus my interests which Megan doesn't have. She isn't the hottest girl but its 3 AM here, half asleep and figured everyone would get my reference to one of top looking and best known girls.
I hope she watches anime!!! probably not tho...lol.
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Well, it's simple, most of people here write stuff like "I am ugly" right ? That probably causes their social anxiety. Now, in your options there is the option of not having social anxiety, but not the option of becoming good looking (for example). Now you understand ?

The optiong of being cured of SA but not of thing that might cause it.
But if you were cured of SA, then those causes wouldn't be so any longer!
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Cured of SA, because then I'd be able to go out there and get what I want. I'd be more appealing to others and I just might be happier.
I think OP tried to describe a situation where you CAN'T have a bg/gf. It may be because of some magical stuff or whatever, but you couldn't xD
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I would rather be cured of SA. Having a cool female in my life is great, but being able to say what I want without second thoughts would be so much better.
Neither. I want a beautiful WIFE.

A soul mate. A woman who can make sweet spiritual love with me.

That's what I want.
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Without a doubt cure of SA. Life would be much easier without it, I would be able to do things I can't now and have a normal life.
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Cured of SA no question.
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i did gf, but if it werent for SA maybe i could get that gf anyway..
i think having a good quality gf is the only thing worth living for though
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**** relationships. If I was cured of this cancerous SA, I would actually be able to make something of myself.
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Having someone who understands and accepts me for my problems is more important than being cured of those problems. Being understood and accepted is all I've ever wanted.
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