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post #1 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-15-2020, 04:04 PM Thread Starter
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Social Goals

Have you achieved any social goals this year?

I want to at least attend one Meetup group event.

I'm hoping to make a friend by the end of the year.
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post #2 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-15-2020, 04:14 PM
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No, I couldn't honestly say I have OP. I hope you can get to a meetup sometime and hopefully make a friend.
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post #3 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-16-2020, 05:43 PM
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Nope,just like last year,and the year before.

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Originally Posted by melancholyscorpio View Post
Have you achieved any social goals this year?

I want to at least attend one Meetup group event.

I'm hoping to make a friend by the end of the year.
Meetup groups are a great goal for someone with SA. Great way to meet people with similar interests.
Problem is I havent been able to go to very many this year since Covid 19 has cancelled most of them or moved them to being virtual
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I was making good progress in January and February. Went to a couple new meetup groups, including my first D&D meetup, and was doing better than usual at talking at those. Then I started my own local hiking group, which is a goal I'd had for a while.

Then March happened. Maybe next year.

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post #6 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-17-2020, 09:43 AM
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If something social that I would like happens, that's great but with the circumstances now there are not much options though I'm not just sitting at home doing nothing! I'm helping out in the house and learning more things and by the end of this year I would like to achieve being 99% adult!
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For sure lily. not a lot of options this year unfortunately w/ every thing closed. Maybe next year?

The world is quiet here.

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I don't set goals for the same reason I stopped buying books years ago.

Some people heard my words and thought it meant they knew me
Truth is, I don't exist, I'm just a soundtrack to your movie
Some background figure in a story that's already scripted
And what I feel's just felt for you to hear me ****ing spit it
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Always hoping maybe the next leap'll be my leap home

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post #9 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-22-2020, 04:41 PM
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I went to conventions, meetups and a party where I used to live

But then I moved to the mountains...

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post #10 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-22-2020, 05:21 PM
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My goal is to get a job and quite possibly a life. lol jk
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post #11 of 11 (permalink) Old 07-22-2020, 07:46 PM
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To be able to change job before the end of the year and be able to socialize with my colleagues
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