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"Normies" Are Actually The Awkward Ones


I've noticed "normies" are the actual awkward ones.

An example is one time at work I was walking into the other division's area to go down to the warehouse and this guy happened to turn the corner to walk to the kitchen and I guess he didn't like me and he was so confused with what to do. He seemed like he wanted to go back to his desk but he was like turning around in circles and faced the wall until I walked past.

It was so awkward to witness that.
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Everyone is awkward in a situation they're not comfortable in
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Everyone is awkward in a situation they're not comfortable in
True. I guess I hide it well. Because I wouldn't react like that.

I've been told I'm expressionless.
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I've been told I'm expressionless.
Has anyone ever thought that we could be the ones making them uncomfortable?
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I've been told I'm expressionless.
Has anyone ever thought that we could be the ones making them uncomfortable?
Of course. But they make me uncomfortable. But I don't react the way they do.

I just continue on. I don't show them that I'm uncomfortable around them so they won't feel uncomfortable.
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Well if you seem off in some way people will usually pick up on that and get uncomfortable or avoid you. So in a sense yes.

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Anyone can be awkward and no matter if you are normie or not...

Even shy people can be sassy sometimes...
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lmao I would have loved to see that
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Normies are fully compatible with having the management mentality for the Supercomputers to keep simulating their minds repeatedly. No wonder why the normies face expression is expressionless and delayed.

I remember a lady who works at blimpe smiles regardless what she does each time I visit, all you see is white teeth over the sandwiches, like she waiting for the sandwiches to take a picture of her white teeth. A member on here a few years back mentioned that a senior citizen normie said to smile, even though he is smiling and the lady said "no your not." I told the member that the Supercomputers translate images of facial appearances incorrectly, because the human suppose to identify on their own which one means happy, sad, disappointed, angry, tired, stress, unhealthy, healthy, satisfied, and unsatisfied.

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Yes I agree. My sister's mother in law and her daughter don't communicate with me in person because I ignore them or they have their made up reasons to do so. Anyway they're wrong because I'm cool and it's their loss. I was trying to take antidepressant to make peace with them, with everyone, but I noticed that it's best to let them be awkward and not try to make peace with them by sacrificing myself. I'll continue giving them what they give me, ignoring vibes and hatred. I ain't babying them if they ain't babying me. To hell with them. I know alot better people with social anxiety who don't treat me as bad as these normies do.
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he was so confused with what to do. He seemed like he wanted to go back to his desk but he was like turning around in circles and faced the wall until I walked past.

Sounds like this guy was released by Bethesda.

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the difference between me and normal people in regards to this is that they show their emotions and attempt to resolve them. because they act out of emotion they dont take their actions so seriously because sometimes they do silly things.

of course I act emotionally too and do silly things but mostly in private or I cover it up.

to be awkward and show it is to be genuine and unafraid and honest. avoidance is a terrible kind of cowardice.

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It's anxety in general.


I noticed that first with people who made of fun of me years ago. Today, they can't face me. I have nothing to worry about - I didn't do anything.


We are so used to anxiety, we know what it is and how to handle it, they don't. In times of stress, we thrive....they merely survive.


I use that to my advantage.......it actually causes me to resent people, though. They can't stand up when I have had to after all these years.

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Well if you seem off in some way people will usually pick up on that and get uncomfortable or avoid you. So in a sense yes.

Exactly lol at least in my experience it’s my awkwardness that makes normies feel awkward but as soon as they’re around other normies they’re usually very normal.


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It's anxety in general.


I noticed that first with people who made of fun of me years ago. Today, they can't face me. I have nothing to worry about - I didn't do anything.


We are so used to anxiety, we know what it is and how to handle it, they don't. In times of stress, we thrive....they merely survive.


I use that to my advantage.......it actually causes me to resent people, though. They can't stand up when I have had to after all these years.
Oh yea they are awkward because they don't know how to handle their own anxiety! But we do. Wow. We should feel better about ourselves when other people don't interact with us. I've also tried interacting first and I get pissed off too fast when they some still ignore me.
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Some of these posts here seem to have this 'us vs. them' mentality which is ridiculous imo. I didn't know these 'normies' we're supposed to be my enemies lol.
Like others have said, I/some of us feel uncomfortable or awkward around most people so that makes some people feel uncomfortable around me/us. Doesn't necessarily mean that we have to be at war with each other lol.
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Some of these posts here seem to have this 'us vs. them' mentality which is ridiculous imo. I didn't know these 'normies' we're supposed to be my enemies lol.

Like others have said, I/some of us feel uncomfortable or awkward around most people so that makes some people feel uncomfortable around me/us. Doesn't necessarily mean that we have to be at war with each other lol.
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Lol true. We're not at war with them it's just a simple way of differentiating ourselves to people with no SA. It is a silly term though .


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Some of these posts here seem to have this 'us vs. them' mentality which is ridiculous imo. I didn't know these 'normies' we're supposed to be my enemies lol.
Like others have said, I/some of us feel uncomfortable or awkward around most people so that makes some people feel uncomfortable around me/us. Doesn't necessarily mean that we have to be at war with each other lol.
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Lol true. We're not at war with them it's just a simple way of differentiating ourselves to people with no SA. It is a silly term though .


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Yeah you're absolutely right. Lots of members here are struggling so we come to this site to vent and take out are frustrations on others who we never even met before. I do the same thing so I shouldn't be judging anyone. 🙂
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solidarity comrades! don't listen to him
What? I don't speak good English so maybe dumb it down a bit so I can understand what you're saying.
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