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post #1 of 5 (permalink) Old 10-24-2019, 12:31 PM Thread Starter
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How do i respond to someone when im under pressure PLSS HELPPPP


Hello guys, so Today i was sitting with a friend i just made in school, then this guy came and sat on the table in front of us, we said hi to him, and then we chatted a bit, then another guy came, so anyway, the guy in front of me was talking to me in a provoking way or maybe he wasn't i'm not sure, so i was smiling trying to maintain a convo, All of sudden he says ''Hey do you like ****ing old women'' at that moment i knew im toasted, my face turned from smiling into serious, i said yes in a weird way and then he started making fun of my accent because i was from another city which is ridiculous because he was also from another city, i froze and kept trying to fake a smile, of course the others interpreted it as i was being bullied and that i felt affended, but i don't really give a **** inside. the class started, After that it went really awkward, because maybe that guy's intention wasn't to make fun of me idk, i tried to recover from it by acting like nothing happend and talking to my friend but that only made it worse, and the silence made it even worse.
i'm sorry for the boring details, please help me, because it's not the first time that this happens to me,
idk what i should do next, pls any tips??
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Was he trying to set you up with his grandmother?

Just sounds like he's a weirdo to me.

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Was he trying to set you up with his grandmother?

Just sounds like he's a weirdo to me.
He was just talking, random **** cause he felt comfortable when his friend came so he decided to mess with me, but i froze cause i was trying to have a normal conversation with this guy that i rarely know, but he fuked it up by making it awkward and i can't handle that.
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