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post #181 of 192 (permalink) Old 05-30-2014, 04:40 AM
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It's amazing how much I can relate to your description..This is exactly how I feel about myself..It's not all about my shyness..my mind go blank whenever I'm in a group of people..I simply don't know how to express my feelings and I just I have nothing to share with them..They go to parties,trips,hang outs with friends, enjoy life while I do nothing..
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Wow, I'm the same except I'm male. But you know what, since we are pretty much the same and understand each other. We can start talking to each other. At least we can "forgive" one another for pauses, or if we genuinely have nothing to contribute during such.
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Also another thing I want to add.. You know how when you contemplate amongst yourself. Your voice for those thoughts are "loud" in a sense. But when confronted in a social scenario, you freeze up and can't act upon your contemplation voice.
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With groups its easier because other people can carry the conversation but one on one conversations suck because theres only so much to say to that person. Why would you have issues talking in a group... after all you probably know at least one of them.
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Wow 2009.

And I still have nothing to say. That's the problem. There's just nothing there.

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I feel the exact same way, but only with certain people and groups of people. Other people I'm fine talking to and I have no idea why. I try to fake it but it doesn't help. There's still always that one kid at work that calls me quiet. And to make matters worse he stereotypes me saying I'm going to kill everyone one day.
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Duuuuuuude I know EXACTLY what you mean. I have been through this COUNTless times in the past. The first time it happens you think there is something wrong... then it happens again.... and again.......... and again. You start wondering... is there something wrong with me? Here is the thing... Everybody goes through this and some people deal with it differently. There are certain people who will literally say anything cause they want to socialize. I know deep down we all WANT to socialize, you are just a lot more articulate as to when you come out. You could be the guy that is talking and everyone is listening to. It might take something you really care to talk about, but who cares? Nobody is always 100% sure of everything they are saying. Some people are just more willing to talk... you will find your time you just have to keep trying and working at it man. It's literally the same things as anything else you do in life. Stay on the spiral keep growing.

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Argh it's frustrating! I wish more introverts would appear in group conversations so I don't feel like i'm the only one not saying anything. Everywhere I go, I feel like I'm the most quiet person there.
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I feel the exact same way, but only with certain people and groups of people. Other people I'm fine talking to and I have no idea why. I try to fake it but it doesn't help. There's still always that one kid at work that calls me quiet. And to make matters worse he stereotypes me saying I'm going to kill everyone one day.
you should of said, "I'll start with you first."
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you should of said, "I'll start with you first."
Haha! That's great! Can't wait to use it next time
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