My mom does all the time and she enjoys it. Recently found out my dad does time to time. To be fair in my dad's case, maybe I do deserve it since it's a bit hard not to, when there aren't much non-negative things to talk about me.
The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.
Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.