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post #1821 of 1835 (permalink) Old 09-20-2014, 12:59 PM
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This sounds bizarre, but I honestly go back and forth. Most of the time I would rather not leave my dorm room and I can't stand myself and then sometimes I feel like I don't look that bad and I want to get out. It makes me feel like I'm crazy. Generally, I'm not happy with the way I look though.
This is the same for me- it depends on the day.
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post #1822 of 1835 (permalink) Old 09-20-2014, 01:17 PM
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Im the only one that weirder in my family..feelin like an alien..
Who the hell that created mirrorT^T
And the worst part is when i started to feel better bout myself
theres always someone fooling with my courages..and sometimes they make
me confuse..
like when last month i go out with my 2 aunts..they said just be yourself
if you want somebody to thinks that you're pretty..you must be confident!.
Then..we saw a girl(which i think she looks good) ..my aunt said to me
..look that *** hoe..she so ugly but tryin to be gorgeous..omg poor that dress..
That time i was completely go back down to the earth and acting like anti-social
person..i had to!
why the hell someone that used to courage us is the same person
that'll drag you drown..?
(Sigh)
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It's shown that I posted in here a long time ago apparently so this is an update post.

I guess I feel a bit better about my appearance after being in two relationships now. I've also lost weight since then. I've actually legitimately had two guys be attracted to me now. However, outside of knowing them, I still think I am hideous to the rest of the world. I have too many scars everywhere to count and a bad body type and face overall anyway. I never wear shorts to work or school.

I do however like to wear nice clothes like cute tops and skirts for my bf once in a while. I used to never even dream of dressing up. It was always t-shirts, hoodies, and jeans. I don't like going out to places in them, but I wear them for him because somehow he finds me attractive. I like this attention that I used to never ever get.

It's starting to suck again though because I'm back in school and have to put up with seeing all these gorgeous, skinny, with perfect flawless skin, pretty faced girls everywhere.
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Yeh. I'm a 2/10 on a good day.
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Yes, and I can tell by the way people look at me that they agree.
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Im the only one that weirder in my family..feelin like an alien..
Who the hell that created mirrorT^T
And the worst part is when i started to feel better bout myself
theres always someone fooling with my courages..and sometimes they make
me confuse..
like when last month i go out with my 2 aunts..they said just be yourself
if you want somebody to thinks that you're pretty..you must be confident!.
Then..we saw a girl(which i think she looks good) ..my aunt said to me
..look that *** hoe..she so ugly but tryin to be gorgeous..omg poor that dress..
That time i was completely go back down to the earth and acting like anti-social
person..i had to!
why the hell someone that used to courage us is the same person
that'll drag you drown..?
(Sigh)
Yeah I get nervous around people who do that. People say something nice to you then they go and complain about someone else about the same thing. Kind of makes me even more nervous.
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post #1827 of 1835 (permalink) Old 09-20-2014, 02:04 PM
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Right now I hate the way I look. So yeah...
Also I think I may have already posted on this thread. lol I'm too lazy to look.
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i spent a long time despising my looks.. it was quite bad and i would say , yes I felt ugly....and looked it ( my opinion)

but I changed myself. I got my hair cut regularly. made a strict regime of grooming my face and body, washing, and buying and wearing good, clean clothes, fashionable.... that match well in style and color and suit me.... all things I have become a bit obsessed and vain actually,.

I style my hair, and am very fussy about most , if not all aspects of my looks.... and grooming. I love the contact lenses. that helped a lot.

Now I feel much less self conscious, and I feel a fraction more confident even. I have been told that I am somewhat handsome and good looking..... and I can just see it now.
However there is a little bot of self doubt....but its a good deal less..... ( still struggle with my reflection in public, but its not so bad now)

Im not bragging at all here.... I am saying that if you really try, and do everything you can to HELP yourself rather than doing NOTHING and COMPLAINING.... you can make yourself feel a bit better by the effort and care you give yourself.... and it may progress to you even liking your looks. OTHER people may comment POSITIVELY.



It is something I never thought possible ever... but I managed it to a good degree ..... AND YOU CAN TOO......
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I oscillate between staring in horror at my face and walking around in public feeling blessedly average and anonymous. Actually, I've figured out that avoiding the mirror and minimizing eye contact relieves a lot of my self-consciousness about my looks. As long as I don't have to see people's reactions to me I can continue feeling like another unremarkable automaton just passing by.
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I took a bath today. As I looked at my legs and my belly I felt disgusted by my body. But, today, I still don't feel like I'm ugly .

Although most of the time I do.

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To society, they kind of hate my face. But to me, I'm like a goddess. I **** you not, I woke up looking fabulous, spent the whole day looking fabulous, will go to sleep looking fabulous and repeat.
If everyone here appreciated your creativity we would all be fabulous.

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I don't look normal, sometimes i think its ok but mostly I think its not good.
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I look okay, I mean everyone is ugly in their own way. I think if I improved my posture and cut my hair I'd come across as more attractive. But I don't wanna.
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It seems as though my perception of myself improves throughout the day. I think I'm like a 3/10 in the morning, but an 8/10 by night time, lol.

But I like to think I'm a 6.5-7 in real life (really unphotogenic). I'm really self-conscious about my looks. I'm afraid of posting my pics here in case someone I know posts here.

Could any girls give me an HONEST rating in a PM?
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post #1835 of 1835 (permalink) Old 09-21-2014, 10:56 AM
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I use to think I was hideous but then I realized with doing just simple things as letting my hair down, and dressing better I look p good. Also, as I get older it seems I get more attractive so that's something to look forward to. Idk man you just need to find what works for you and your appearance and show it off and own it. 8D
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