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Holy **** yes. I absolutely hate it when people look at me. This is why I have isolated myself. I'm tired of being judged.

(I know I can take a good pic and have enjoyed the attention I receive from them, because I don't get any such attention in real life, but they do not portray my appearance accurately, trust me)

I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar. I am the son and heir of nothing in particular.

You shut your mouth. How can you say I go about things the wrong way? I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does.
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Don't be so hard on yourself libby. It's not like you put a completely different person in your pictures. You have beautiful hair, eyes and lips...not trying to get all lez on ya', but you know what I mean.
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I'd agree with everything above (ermmm not the lez part, but you know).
It's the terror of SA when people can't see how lovely they look
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Thanks for the encouragement guys, I really appreciate it.

I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar. I am the son and heir of nothing in particular.

You shut your mouth. How can you say I go about things the wrong way? I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does.
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Both in looks and lack of personality...
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Christ I look awful


I look so ugly I should be jumping out of air vents to grab Sigourney Weaver and dragging her back inside.
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I have never had a girlfriend, and I am virtually never complimented on my looks (just from my mom, which does more harm than good).
Yeah I know where you're coming from with the whole mom thing. I don't think you're a bad looking guy at all. I just thought up a fun game for us sa guys. We should go to a bar together and see who can get more numbers, lol. That would be hilarious and fun, and funny being that we're all going in with the whole sa issue.
This is a great idea.

It would be like A Night at the Roxbury, SA-style! Who will look least awkward!? Who will mumble the least!? Who will be able to get ANY eye contact?! It sounds like the next Reality TV show.

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I'm average, leaning towards ugly.

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< - - - - - As you can all clearly see from my avatar, I'm one sexy *****.
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I look so ugly I should be jumping out of air vents to grab Sigourney Weaver and dragging her back inside.


I'm average in the looks dept. so I make up for it by staying in shape. I am Italian, and thus, really hairy. It has contributed to a poor self image.
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< - - - - - As you can all clearly see from my avatar, I'm one sexy *****.
I'd hit that.
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My looks definitely hold me back - not my face as much (although my eyelids droop as if I were an addict), but my skinny physique.

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Yeah, I think so. Though I'm not actually sure. But probably. I mean noone's explicitly told me so, but who would?
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But probably. I mean noone's explicitly told me so, but who would?
People have explicitly told me that I am.
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But probably. I mean noone's explicitly told me so, but who would?
People have explicitly told me that I am.
I've seen pretty hot people get called ugly a lot of times. And really ugly people getting called hot.

We all have different tastes my friend.
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People have told me that I am good looking. When I received my last job I was complimented by the HR director " Hey at least we hired someone thats good looking" but no matter what anybody says...I believe that my flaws are unaceptable and will ultimately lead to disappointment to the viewer and ultimately rejection.
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I don't think I'm ugly-ugly. I just need to, um, work on my overall look. x]
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I don't really know. I don't think I am, but there are those days when I just feel like a monster and look like one too, that's when everything that I hate about myself gets really obvious - big nose, sickly pale, greasy skin, little eyes, etc. etc. etc.

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Here's a related pet peeve to feeling ugly/unattractive...

I hate how a female friend of mine might say "hey sexy" to me. If I were actually attractive, girls would probably be too embarrassed to say such a thing. Instead, it comes across as demeaning, although not intentionally.

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I have definitely referred to myself as ugly before, but mostly in my teenage years. I don't use the word now, since I connotate it somewhat broadly to other factors (like personality). Regarding my physical attractiveness though, I find myself EXTREMELY unattractive and not at all sexually attractive.

I was teased for my red hair, pale skin, and short height (5'5"). I am fairly fit due to my love of running, but it doesn't make me look good. I have never had a girlfriend, and I am virtually never complimented on my looks (just from my mom, which does more harm than good). I come across as if I'm 15 or 16 years old, despite being 23. I think the evidence is in... I'm quite pathetic on looks.

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I'm pretty satisfied with myself. I clean up pretty nice when I shave and cut my hair well. I just need to be about 6" taller.
How tall are you? Are you shorter than my 5'5" ?

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Nah, not really, but I have my moments where I feel ugly.

Some of the comments in this thread remind me of an Elliott Smith lyric (how surprising):

Just looking in the mirror will make you a brave man.
I know my place, hate my face...
I love that song.
Oh Ardrum you are soooo adorable! You remind me of that actor that plays in "Hot Fuzz" and "Sean of the Dead". Seriously, you are a cutie. And as far as height goes...I'm 5'1" so height doesn't mean much to me. Just aim for the shorties <3

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