Sure, SA's one problem but here's a big scary red flag for ya', my personality fits a bit too well with a few personality disorders, so the problem is possibly a lot deeper. I'm not listing traits, I'd regret that enormously but yeah, there's a real chance I'm seriously messed up and just unfit. I don't feel like someone who's significantly mentally ill atm but that's just because I'm doing somewhat OK. When it flares up, it sets everything on ****ing fire. It has, way too many times.
I don't know how bad I am when it comes to talking to people these days for sure, even superficial talk, because I don't have activities or places to go try and socialize in real life. Tried a group thingie a while back but didn't get any sort of meaningful connection out of it. And it depressed me, to be honest. With short interactions (couple phrases, couple phrases back, a final bit, bye, that kind of interaction) with random strangers, it moves where my mood/self-confidence goes. Also, some demographics are easier, some are harder, others seem impossible.
Flowers will grow from these wounds.