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post #61 of 83 (permalink) Old 10-07-2007, 03:14 PM
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Re: do you ever just get really really lonely?


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Yeah, that's what sleeping is for.
yep. although laying in bed is probably when i feel most lonely. i want someone to be lying next to me.. so badly. but once i'm asleep at least i don't have to feel any of that.
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Yeah, I feel like that a lot, especially when I'm going through a period of depression, like now. But I find that the worst feeling is when I'm with people, be it family or the few friends I have, and I still feel incredibly lonely because I can't be at ease or express myself the way I'd like to be able to
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Yeah, that's what sleeping is for.
yep. although laying in bed is probably when i feel most lonely. i want someone to be lying next to me.. so badly. but once i'm asleep at least i don't have to feel any of that.[/quote:ca864]

I feel that way a bit, but next thing you know, you're asleep and you can forget about it...like you basically said.
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Hey you look really hot if thats your pic ^^ yeah I do feel lonely all the time..
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Thankyou. ...and sorry you feel lonely too.

I just looked at your myspace and your avatar obviously, you're quite handsome.
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Re: do you ever just get really really lonely?


I used to think I was lonely when I was in college. Then I graduated and moved away and found out what true lonliness is. Even someone with my level of social skills (a pretty low level) could make a few friends in college with the built-in audience of 20,000 people in my age range. Now that I'm here, there's really no one. I get up, go to work, come home, and that's it. The feelings of loneliness can almost be crushing sometimes.

I'd also echo what others have said that the lack of any kind of romantic relationship is a huge factor in loneliness. I try to tell myself that it shouldn't matter that much, but I think having someone to be close to is a basic human need for most of us. I'm in the "never had a relationship" camp like a lot of us here, and the need for it just seems to get worse as time goes on.
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Can you actually see yourself in a relationship, matt404?

I've also never had any kind of romantic relationship, but I noticed over time that I seemed to accept this fate. I don't expect it any more, and I can't even imagine myself in a romantic relationship nowadays! I wouldn't know what to do, and I'm so used to living alone that I wouldn't want someone else to cramp my lifestyle.

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I'm really really lonely right now...even though there are people all around me.
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post #69 of 83 (permalink) Old 10-10-2007, 04:38 PM
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I feel lonley all the time. Sometimes so much i that I don't think can't take it anymore. I just wish I knew how to fix myself.
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almost 6 years since anything here huh? That's lonely in itself..

my answer: I'm always lonely, and if I'm not, then I'm just an angry mess in competitive games when I'm alone (too socially awkward to play basketball or any real sport anymore)
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post #72 of 83 (permalink) Old 09-30-2013, 02:22 PM
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Sometimes. But then I just get unimaginably angry with myself right afterwards.
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I'm feeling lonely right now and it hit me at a bad time. Now I can't concentrate on my work.
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I've been alone at work and home for so long now I'm used to it but from time to time I get extremely lonely and just wish there was some one to talk sh1t to even a family member or stranger not just some random posts here and there to try and communicate a real conversation would be nice

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I used to get lonely and actually do something about it. But then I moved back to a place where I hate everybody and for some reason I have detested human interaction for years now.
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Lonely is my default state. To some degree, I've made peace with it.
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I'm feeling lonely bc I got a cold/flu since Sunday and therefore can't go out for 14 days. I don't like to rely on the internet. I wish I had someone to talk to that I wish I could talk to due to my own reasons but I've never had that luck for so many years, it has only been short-term.
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I've had a little luck though but just no one I could really relate to.
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I feel sad that someone I really liked talking to hasn't come back to this site bc he was too busy. I hope he's ok. I also feel sad that someone else on this site who was on my friend list committed suicide. I think the mental health disease was genetic and he couldn't take it. He was important and intelligent to me. it's also depressing/sad when you meet someone online and there's something wrong with them/or they're incompatible with you or not nice or they aren't someone you should be friends with.
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