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I constantly feel like no one likes me.

I believe that the reason no one likes me is because something in my demeanour communicates to others who see me that I am a loser.

I feel that I cannot ever become likable, because I cannot do anything about the unattractive messages that I subconsciously communicate.
I feel that too.
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Yes. Even than they saying for me that they like me.. I know, that they don't :<
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I've been feeling that a lot lately. I love when people, especially people on this very forum, message you telling how much they like you, then you try to start a conversation with them and all of a sudden they start ignoring you more and more, and it becomes apparent they don't actually like you.
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getting negative affection is better than being moot to everyone. some people have given up on being like, the just try the next best thing, getting some hate. thats what trolls are.
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What is this... "feeling"? I am simply stating facts!

"Let's be honest here; I probably don't like you." - me
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Ditto. There is no "feeling". There is only "know". I know people hate me.
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Hello everybody. I just signed up and I feel exactly the same way. It's not just a feeling, I know for afact for what ever reason, they turn the other way, they leave, they don't ask me to or invite.....

I feel and I know I'm the kind of person who is honest and kind. I try to go out of my way to do things for people because I truly do not mind. English is not my first language but I speak normally. I feel like I don't fit in 99% of the time and wonder to myself..what is wrong. I start thinking "maybe I should be mean' or get angry because I think too much of it.

I try to wake up and think happy thoughts and focus on my future goals with my business. I'm happy when I think aout it but when I'm at work or whatever...I seem to only attract the people I really don't want to be associated with. I'm nice to everyone and I do have some friends...one or two actual close friends. I seem to make friends when I try but within two visits or even the first, I seem to feel they think me as a castaway or soemthing. Or I may pick up their body language or a something they say to make me believe they don't want to hang out anymore.

Who do I go to in c ase like this? Are there support groups near Carroll County Maryland or West Baltimore?
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It sucks when you try to talk to someone you want to get to know and it seems like they are trying to get rid of you as fast as possible, but then people you don't care about might start a conversation with you. This happens to me at work.
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post #30 of 119 (permalink) Old 05-14-2012, 04:27 PM
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I feel this way all the time, i would go so far as to say i might suffer from Paranoia. I have great difficulty trusting people. And it is even harden to discern wether people's intentions are genuine, good, bad, etc...
I think it is mainly paranoia, This is why my SA is very bad around people I don't know and almost non existent around loved ones which I am very close and spent a lot of time with
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It's more than a feeling. *cue Boston*
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People form opinions of others very quickly from very subtle behavioral cues. If you have a history of thinking and feeling persecuted, along with slight awkwardness/social discomfort, its quite likely that people are going to respond in a reserved manner.
Remember one thing, almost all people are in some way insecure and will respond defensively towards anybody who doesnt work to make them feel at ease. Blame modern society that more people arent peaceful and unafraid...
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Most of it is in the head and from low self-esteem. I felt the same way all the time but its not true I always feel people hate me but then at the beginning of class or end they always say hi and bye, they strike up conversations with me, etc it's mostly in the head.

Anyone who doesn't like you, it doesn't matter their opinion doesn't matter if they were a good person they would find a reason to like you because they are cool like that and a good person that's a non-hater.

Just be super nice, kind, and respectful and if they don't like you don't worry about them. =b
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yeah, all the time.

This is probably why I'm a loner... no one cares about me
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Every time I interact with someone it instantly feels like they are thinking something negative about me. All it takes is a subtle facial expression like squinting, a raised eyebrow or anything like that and I am convinced they don't like me.
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Yeah, I feel like everyone hates me.
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This thread reminded me of...





But, I feel the same way. Even if someone says they like me, in the back of my mind I always think they dislike me. I don't know if I'll ever get over the feeling-- I feel this way with my parents and siblings, not just 'people'...
What is this from? its funny lol.
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What is this from? its funny lol.
It's from Meet the Robinsons. C:
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yeah i feel this way it sux
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Not really, but I can't help but feel that anyone who's been nice to me is either acting or just feeling sorry for me.

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