Originally Posted by Twilight Zelda
Well... I'm not sure if this is a fear of other people who I feel jelous or intimadated of but whenever I go outside, my eyes seem to take a mind of their own. They go left and right, follow people whenever they walk past me, and just won't stop moving even when I think I'm concentrating on one thing. I'm getting too many complaints about this and I'm sick of this! I haven't been comfortable with people for a while now and this whole eye thing isn't making anything better.
I'm woundering if anybody has this problem too and what they do about it.
So your eyes follow where people are?
I have this same problem actually
in class i'll "stare" or keep an eye on people in my peripheral vision and ahead of me, its a pain in the *** because i'm so AWARE OF IT and i try to FORCE myself NOT to do it but forcing myself so strongly does the exact opposite and instead i'll stare even moreso at the people around me...
THIS Makes me feel WEIRD, creepy and I think others notice it because EYE contact is very strong and personal and if you have the guy in the corner staring at you who doesn't really talk to you...CREEPY!
I actually had a very long post about this alonnnnnnggggg time ago on these forums because it was probably my biggest issue, it felt as if i couldn't control my eye contact.
Its like an attractive women with her cleavage hanging out and you're trying to keep focused on HER EYES...DIFFICULT because you keep telling yourself FOCUS ON the face, FOCUS ON the face, and the more you keep thinking that you are distracted and can't focus on the conversation but instead the BOOBAGE!!! aghhhh
Or the worst, computer class if you have a computer faced right across someone who's facing you....i can't HELP but stare at them, its like I LOOK at them to see if they are LOOKING AT ME, i keep an eye out for other people...because well I'm afraid of people???
It makes me feel crazy tho, thats for sure, crazy, creepy and weird