Attachment and Commitment problems?
Does anyone besides me have problems with attachments? Talking to people isn’t really my main issue.
My main issue with my SA is that I have a lot of trouble with atrachmebts and commitment. I don’t mind having acquaintances, but I feel like running when people try getting closer to me.
I end up having a dilemma where I am lonely, but I like keeping people at arms length as well. I get really uncomfortable and anxious when I have obligation to people.
I am not very good at interacting with people in general. I love the IDEA of close relationships, but the process of making a close friend is what I don’t enjoy.
I enjoy being around people, but want to be left alone.
I also have a problem where I become extremely obsessed with people I become interested in. Also, in the past when I have had close friends I have always felt very protective and territorial. I don’t like sharing people. I’m not verbally hostile anymore, but i used to be.
The odd thing is that even with people I like a lot I still feel like I need to keep them at arms length. It’s like I simultaneously try to get closer and farther at the same time. So, even though with people I really like I form obsessive attachments I don’t really react on that obsession.
It’s really weird being me.
YOU ARE NOT INVISIBLE