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Are We Bitter or Are People Fake?


Do you find people are so typical in which they desperately want to be popular and ignore people like us?

I hope you know what I mean.
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Do you find people are so typical in which they desperately want to be popular and ignore people like us?

I hope you know what I mean.
I don't think you come across as bitter - that's not the feeling I get from you at all.

And I do think people are very silly sometimes - maybe they want to be popular or maybe they just don't know how to handle people that are quiet etc. Either way it's pretty horrible - and it's understandable that it would upset you. I'd be upset too.
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Do you find people are so typical in which they desperately want to be popular and ignore people like us?

I hope you know what I mean.
My opinion on this depends what kind of mood I am in.

My own personal experiences with trying to make friends is that (and I'd even say the majority here) of people change their behaviours depending on who they are with. I hear people moaning about 'friends' one minute and than been nice to their faces the next. I cannot do this. I feel like what I say, I have to 100% believe, I can't say something just to please someone else and I very very rarely remark on other peoples behaviours. Being so odd myself I tend to give others the benefit of the doubt.

A lot of my family/friends make comments (negatively) about people as though its a normal part of everyday life - this part does make me bitter. I have heard them say things about me (hurtful) things which I would never dream of commenting on about them. I guess this makes it difficult for me to trust people. Although I do have a select few people around me that I can 100% trust but this is gained over years of friendship.

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There's a category from a group of people who are specifically receiving isolation from human interaction at a certain time in person and online, which causes them to want to behave differently from what was being influenced by the people lack of intention in order to act on behavior from what's projected from the environment. I find the whole receiving isolation process to be dangerous to the natural state of the psyche, where it can drive the person to be consciously desperate for attention within the time of seeking interaction. The build up isolation to the psyche can lead to the person to want to physically hurt others, sexually confuse others, and promote unforgivable actions that people wouldn't want to learn about on their own. One of the reasons why cops supervise the city more, is that the people in the environment are more influence than they should be to want to commit acts. One's intention grows into despair, when the projection changes from the layout of the environment to create murderers, suiciders, porn stars, hookers, cyber boobie instagirls, and rape for evaluating the conditions that the psyche had met.

The observer such as the software engineers excites the attention to computationally create new cryptographic keys to allow the Multi-Agent Quantum AI Computers to design its intended mentality for setting citizens religious, murderous, sexual, suicidal, lonely thoughts. How many fake minds did the supercomputers designed to mislead the citizens intentions? of a god that the software engineers feeds from the bible.

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It's both.

Sorry for not currently replying to your posts addressed to me. I will do that later (hopefully in a few days) because now I can't Please, don't take it personally because you have nothing to do with it.
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I just don't get people in general. I'm always around people who don't hesitate to gossip about others, but then when that person is around, they pretend to like them. I'm not saying you have to be mean, but what's with the fakeness? It makes me scared to trust people. I guess it's normal to change personalities depending on who you are with, but I don't get it lol. Probably why I have no friends :P
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I just don't get people in general. I'm always around people who don't hesitate to gossip about others, but then when that person is around, they pretend to like them. I'm not saying you have to be mean, but what's with the fakeness? It makes me scared to trust people. I guess it's normal to change personalities depending on who you are with, but I don't get it lol. Probably why I have no friends :P
This what makes it difficult for me to make friends. Occasionally I will meet someone that I think I can become friends with. If they do this I immediately keep guard up around them. This limits conversations and makes me look rude/ignorant....

I think most people are like this but due to our anxiety (especially being judged) we cannot participate, otherwise we would be doing the thing we fear being done to us.

There is one positive though, when we do find the rare person that doesn't do this, they are very special people. Keep looking.

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Just turn that gossip to positivity. People will talk about each other, no avoiding that. But if it's positive things - yay.

That's one reason why I love my job. The work conditions are not good, but my crew has yet to gossip in a negative way. It's either positive or neutral/informative.
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maybe they want to be popular or maybe they just don't know how to handle people that are quiet etc. Either way it's pretty horrible - and it's understandable that it would upset you. I'd be upset too.
I see it more like they don't know (or even don't want to know) how to handle others that are different...

Even shy people can be sassy sometimes...
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