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post #1 of 3 (permalink) Old 06-10-2019, 02:59 PM Thread Starter
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I am incapable of making any friends


I'm a freshman in college, had an abusive past (was abused) and it eventually made me an extremely introverted, socially anxious, paranoid with a load of trust issues person...
I started the year with that stupid mindset of 'since it's a new year and a new place my social anxiety will hopefully magically go away' needless to say it didn't.
I spent the whole year alone, I have no contact with any of my classmates nor did I join any clubs or activities, when my family asks me how my 'friends' are I always lie.
So, yeah I'm frustrated I guess.
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post #2 of 3 (permalink) Old 06-19-2019, 08:24 AM
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Hi, scrolled through forums and saw this. Well, I'm in college too, you know, I don't know if this will help you, but I'll say. I have a group of those fake friends, who only remember me when they need help with tasks and never call or write me otherwise. Even if I write to them, they often ignore my messages or write some one word or two word answer, ya know. As the school year ended, I managed to get two more numbers, but I don't think it'll help me. Wrote a message to one number, still no answer, haven't tried another one, but I think I'll be ignored too. So yeah, wanted to get friends to meet in summertime, "guess what, f4ck you" -life. If you want you can PM me for a chat. Be well.
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Hi, scrolled through forums and saw this. Well, I'm in college too, you know, I don't know if this will help you, but I'll say. I have a group of those fake friends, who only remember me when they need help with tasks and never call or write me otherwise. Even if I write to them, they often ignore my messages or write some one word or two word answer, ya know. As the school year ended, I managed to get two more numbers, but I don't think it'll help me. Wrote a message to one number, still no answer, haven't tried another one, but I think I'll be ignored too. So yeah, wanted to get friends to meet in summertime, "guess what, f4ck you" -life. If you want you can PM me for a chat. Be well.
aww thank you for your response, pretty much nothing's changed since I've made this post, and yeah I really dont have any friends to spend the summer with lol
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