Self-absorbed but it's ok
Join Date: Oct 2014
Language: Bad English
I don't know why these particular people are ''pissed off'' and I won't answer the specific question you asked. But why they think you have it better I know. But you'd only have a chance to know if you weren't attractive as you describe yourself. You'd find out because you'd be picked on for your looks, especially as a girl. I was bullied at school and university by boys and one of the things they insulted me with was ''ugly''. They were picking on me in general because I wasn't anything like the girls around them and was super closed off etc. I'm sure if I was so beautiful and even worked as a model so it wouldn't be just being born this way (although I've never seen or encountered a girl like this), there wouldn't be any of this bullying at school.
Not even talking about relationships. If I was a model who's so attractive everyone constantly brings that up, I would know for sure men asking me out really like me cause, let's be honest, 99% of them have the same taste when it comes to attractiveness in women and women in modeling and women who's attractiveness is constantly brought up are considered the most attractive women. When these men date someone else, they make compromises with themselves or/and they want to get only one thing from your relationship with them which is ''support'', not being alone etc, but not the components that make a relationship different from close friendship. They would seek them elsewhere, with the women they really want. It's really hypocritical and it's very hurtful... More so when they promise you a lot, lie that you're so valuable to them but still pick those women over you.
And yeah, lookism is a thing... People prescribe the best qualities to beautiful people, people are nicer to them and everything Sekiro said, they earn more money, more likely to get a higher career position etc.
I know you also have problems, but you can't see what it would be like if you weren't attractive so you think it's the same or even worse. You may have people jealous of you or unwanted admirers, but the positive obviously overwhelms the negative and the negative is only the consequence of such an enormous positive thing you have which gives you advantage over most of people, especially women. Even in a situation with jealousy etc people are going to defend you a lot and root for you for the same simple reason.
Sorry not sorry