What are your pet peeves? What pisses you off?
When I was younger, small things really bothered me. Pple chewing too loudly, slurping on soup or running a few minutes late (this one still bothers me if it's more than 5 mins tbh.)
Nowadays, larger attitudes or, idk, ways of being piss me off.
Pple who constantly talk s**t about pple annoy me. Like get a life and focus on it. Everyone has an off day where someone really got to them and they want to vent, but for some, it's a hobby. To my mom and aunts- it's like bloodsport. I typically just leave the room while they're at it and silently pray for death.
Pple who judge others in general, but especially about things they've previously struggled with. Makes me want to bang my head against the wall. If you struggled with depression, sa, poverty, weight, whatever for 5, 10, 15, 20 yrs then you figure it out and become judgemental of pple who are still struggling, you are basically satan to me. This is such a common behavior, I swear it's pple projecting their previous self hatred onto others. It's not when they're compassionately trying to help pple. I'm talking about the smug, obnoxious, condescending 'why don't you just do it!" It's like 'oh yea and what were you doing the last 20 yrs treading water that made you so enlightened?' Everyone is on their own path, their own journey, with their unique history, difficulties and things click in different times. Maybe it took you 10yrs and 2 days. It took them 3 yrs, it took someone 57. It doesn't ****ing matter. Help with compassionate kindness or get out of the ****ing way cause you're making s**t worse. Aargh!!!
I have 2 more that bother me, but I'll save you from the full wonder of my crotchetiness. I'll leave them for another time/different post.