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Most embarrassing thing you've done while drunk/high?


While high on benzos I facebooked an old crush from school (this was over 10 years after I left school) telling her how I used to feel about her and how I didn't date her back then because I had something called social anxiety and how it made me all weird and unable to talk to her.

This turned out to be a massive blunder since I knew (from other people) she had the hots for me back then and now after telling why I didn't talk to her (back at school) she believed I was just lying to her about being shy and believed that I didn't approach her because I didn't want her. She asked me wtf was up with me for messaging her and telling her all this stuff and dragging up old things and for basically p***ing her off (she thought I just messaged her to tell her I rejected her and was rubbing her face in it). I made up some bs about messaging her as a dare (the real reason was to have sex with her and take her as my gf but I never told her that). This reason enraged her and she dared me to meet her face to face to tell her all of this (yeah I figured she just wanted to sock it to me face to face). I ended up sending messages to her in the second person pretending to be someone else to save face so that if I ever ran into her I could deny I ever contacted her.
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I don't remember it but apparently I puked in my roommate's car. Didn't know why he didn't talk to me for a few days. I was blissfully unaware. Come to think of it, probably the most embarrassing things are things I don't remember and if no one told me later, I wouldn't know about it.

Alcohol induced amnesia is freaky. It's like your memory was stolen from you. Like it wasn't even you. I've talked to a few people about nights that I don't remember and they said I seemed drunk but nothing too bad. Still functioning- able to walk, talk, not piss my pants.
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Yeah puked in a co-workers car coming home from a work Christmas party, he was a Bible bashing teetotaler so that went down well.

I was extremely uncomfortable in that situation so drinking was the solution, I've got better at drinking since then, 10 years more practice, no more puking <a href="http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/images/smilies/celebrate.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" >:-)</a>






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threw up on a couch a long long time ago, and i think i talked a lot of pathetic ****. my only ever experience of going to a random party for the purpose of drinking. remembered none of it thankfully, except people picked me up and carried me somewhere which felt like i was flying lol.

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threw up on a couch a long long time ago, and i think i talked a lot of pathetic ****.
That's good pathetic **** is life






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That's good pathetic **** is life

i didn't have much confidence back then. i'm still as lost as ever, but at least i have my own values and self-esteem etc. now. i'm sure if i did it again, i'd be talking to them about climate change and animal abuse and they would pick me up and put me outside for different reasons lol.

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I have hardly ever been THAT drunk that it caused me to do anything embarrassing. I tripped over my dog one time when I was drunk but that was funny. I passed out in the hallway once and puked up red Mad Dog 20/20 all over the carpet. Not really embarrassing. Just stupid. If I was going to get that drunk and have to spend so many hours cleaning up the mess, I could have at least done it with something more expensive than Mad Dog.

Funny. I just remembered that I still own (and use) the Shop Vac I used to clean that mess up with like 15 years ago. It's right there in a corner in my bedroom right now.

I also really only ever got high on weed and weed never made me that stupid that I'd do anything embarrassing. I think I might have been one of those people who was actually smarter when stoned.

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I have hardly ever been THAT drunk that it caused me to do anything embarrassing. I tripped over my dog one time when I was drunk but that was funny. I passed out in the hallway once and puked up red Mad Dog 20/20 all over the carpet. Not really embarrassing. Just stupid. If I was going to get that drunk and have to spend so many hours cleaning up the mess, I could have at least done it with something more expensive than Mad Dog.

Funny. I just remembered that I still own (and use) the Shop Vac I used to clean that mess up with like 15 years ago. It's right there in a corner in my bedroom right now.

I also really only ever got high on weed and weed never made me that stupid that I'd do anything embarrassing. I think I might have been one of those people who was actually smarter when stoned.
Mad dog is some rough ****. I've seen dudes puke that up before. It's not pretty hehe
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Mad dog is some rough ****. I've seen dudes puke that up before. It's not pretty hehe
Yeah. That stuff could probably be put in a spray bottle and used as roach spray or something.

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i try my hardest to forget stuff like this. they do come into my head sometimes. they've actually built up now where i have a physical reaction whenever these memories come back out of nowhere. i should be accepting them, sometimes i try letting the memories back without pushing them out but my instinct is to push them out. but its been a while i havent gone drinking with other people since 2015, maybe 2016.

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Threw up in the street, needed help walking. I have done way more embarrassing/cringy stuff while sober though.

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Passed out naked in my pickup truck and woke up with a police car pulled behind me. I was arrested.

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Passed out naked in my pickup truck and woke up with a police car pulled behind me. I was arrested.
Actually, trying to have sex and not being able to get it up was a lot more embarrassing for me.

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Threw up all over my friend's friend's house in a new swanky house he just moved in. I never met him before that, so that made it much worse. I didn't remember any of it. All I remembered was we were playing a drinking card game King's Cup. And then I was very buzz when some random black guy with pink dreadlocks was showing me this weird voodoo psychedelic phone app he has which made my buzz felt even better. Those were the last thing I remembered. Then all of a sudden I was sitting on a sofa with some random white golden retriever on my lap and a couple of my friends sitting there watching Food Network reruns, and some random guy there forcing me to drink electrolyte water saying I need it. While most people have left and it was 1am. That was when I learned what happened. It was embarrassing. I felt horrible. I never got a chance to see him again to apologize. My friend who invited me was so upset at me, she wouldn't drive me home when others at the party pushed her to. So I just slept it out in my car until the morning and drove myself home. Unfortunately she and I quickly grew apart since then.

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yikes, some things should not be remembered. my physical form can't handle even mild strains of weed-my senses don't work anymore (my open eyes see black), i can't control my movements, i sweat profusely. it's a whole trip. it would have been so nice to discover this in a safe environment and not a coffeeshop in amsterdam on a chilly november night with a flatmate i wasn't super close to and didn't like much tbh. i was drunk, too. anyway, i remember the bartender(?) had his hands on my hips so he could guide me up the steps to the bench outside. he also brought me this soury drink/said it would help. eventually my flatmate walked me home /: i've never really been embarrassed by this tho. by the time i had the good sense to be embarrassed, i thought it was terrifying instead.

as for uh just drunk. i didn't pace myself at our house gathering and my flatmates had to carry me to my room. i guess it was obvious that i was about to hurl bc they put the bin in front of me and i f-cking missed. at which point, they changed me into a fresh set of clothes and my bed sheets, too Q_Q i wonder how those beautiful angels are doing.

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Threw up in the street, needed help walking. I have done way more embarrassing/cringy stuff while sober though.
So you threw up and needed help walking when drunk? Of it had only been help walking, then that wouldn't have been so bad.

Isn't it funny that the most common thing seems to be "I threw up" .something about that seems to be the worst. But It's not embarrassing if you were sick in your own bathroom when you got home, tho. It's only if it's Infront of someone else. And anyway, the other drunk people you're with are probably not gonna care very much, unless you ruin something of theirs like.being sick in their car or on their carpet. Lol

No, I have not thrown up in front of anyone else or in a car etc, after going out to a bars or clubs etc, but I think only once I came close but it didn't happen thank god, and the feeling passed in about 20 mins.. I know when I've got to my limit.

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So you threw up and needed help walking when drunk, or you had gastroenteritis or something not self inflicted?

Isn't it funny that the most common thing seems to be "I threw up" . It's not embarrassing if you were sick in your own bathroom when you got home, tho. It's only if it's Infront of someone else. And anyway, the other drunk people you're with are probably not gonna care very much, unless you ruin something of theirs like.being sick in their car or carpet.

No, I have not thrown up in front of anyone else after going out to a bars or clubs etc, but I think once I came close but it didn't happen thank god. I know when I've got to my limit.
I mean given the context I obviously threw up from the alcohol lol. Well I didn't really find throwing up embarrassing, or being drunk since it's the UK you know, but I've only been properly drunk once so I don't have a lot to draw from. I used to drink a lot but didn't get drunk.

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So you threw up and needed help walking when drunk, or you had gastroenteritis or something not self inflicted?

Isn't it funny that the most common thing seems to be "I threw up" . It's not embarrassing if you were sick in your own bathroom when you got home, tho. It's only if it's Infront of someone else. And anyway, the other drunk people you're with are probably not gonna care very much, unless you ruin something of theirs like.being sick in their car or carpet.

No, I have not thrown up in front of anyone else after going out to a bars or clubs etc, but I think once I came close but it didn't happen thank god. I know when I've got to my limit.

I threw up in my mates parents hanging flower basket in the back garden, at a party round there, when stood right next to mate. I just about remember saying to him it was just the right height, and right next to me, so very convenient..it made perfect sense to me at the time.


Round another mates ha, I was just about to throw up near back fence with neighour, obviously bent over in postition, but then just drunkenly tipped forward and into the fence, where my head went right through it, and threw up in his neighbours back garden. Just my head sticking thru ha.


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I’ll say something I did when I was straight,
Accidentally tried to walk into someone house because there building looked really similar to the “public” pray building in the next street over.
The first door was unlocked
Thanks goodness the next door was locked otherwise I would have been trespassing and who knows shot?

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