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If Your Husband/Wife Died, Would You Remarry?


If the love of your life died, could/would you remarry?
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Truth is, I don't exist, I'm just a soundtrack to your movie
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And what I feel's just felt for you to hear me ****ing spit it
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Always hoping maybe the next leap'll be my leap home

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I don't know, there are enough weird people out there that I imagine it would be possible, and my own standards are not incredibly high.. but I don't know if I would want to be in a relationship again. When I was at the hospital, a nurse was flirting with me, which was really unexpected.. so apparently I still have some swag while in a compromised state. Perhaps she just felt really bad for me. Some women like really submissive shy and vulnerable guys though, it is unusual but happens.



I think I would feel guilty though, even if my wife were dead, I would want to honor her memory - and as such would have a hard time falling in love again.

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I don't think people *want* to remarry, I think they just happen to meet someone that makes them feel that way again.
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Would still have to find the first one. But I'll pass.
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It seems so unrealistic for me that I can barely imagine it lol. I can't imagine finding two people like that though with how I am, so probably not. (And then separately not sure about marriage so thinking of long term relationships.)

Some people heard my words and thought it meant they knew me
Truth is, I don't exist, I'm just a soundtrack to your movie
Some background figure in a story that's already scripted
And what I feel's just felt for you to hear me ****ing spit it
I jump in many different heads through these words and poems
Always hoping maybe the next leap'll be my leap home

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Never even been close to married. I don't think I would get married, TBH.

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The answer is apparently no.

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Still have to get to step 1 first.

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only if they died which I don't want to talk about I would possibly re-marry as I'm allowed to do that as a Christian and it could be healthier to do but otherwise not, if they're alive they're always going to be the special one.
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If the right person comes along, yes. I move on pretty quickly once someone is out of my life (in any circumstance, including death).
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marriage isn't my thing; but i think it's important to keep your heart open.

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i do look fwd


any widows

being best mate of those passed away

ultimate replacement.... who be the competition..??


all death a wondrous opportunity! employyymenttt!! + partner!

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marriage isn't my thing; but i think it's important to keep your heart open.

I'm with cafune on this one.

**** your feelings !!


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Maybe? Who knows? I'm not even married.

I'd love to marry like W. H. Auden - to bring someone who's seeking political asylum into the country and get them citizenship.

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I can't imagine ever being in this situation, but I don't see why other people shouldn't. I wouldn't want anyone wasting their life over my dead bones.

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I would remarry an old rich lady
Wait... I'm not even married

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Would have to get the former first, before worrying about the latter.

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