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post #1 of 14 (permalink) Old 11-19-2020, 11:58 AM Thread Starter
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Does anyone else freak out when someone knocks or rings the doorbell? I get all jittery when that happens. Even after 30 minutes to an hour after they have gone.
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post #2 of 14 (permalink) Old 11-19-2020, 12:22 PM
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hey. I dont answer the door unless I'm expecting someone or if they escalate things.

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Lol. Same. When I'm not expecting someone and they ring the doorbell, I turn off the T.V., making everything go quiet, then I look out the window and start panicking. Haha
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I hide in my wardrobe or on the floor if someone rings the doorbell and no one else is home. It’s usually only the postman, and parcels can be left outside the front door.

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Nobody ever knocks but people occasionally ring the buzzer. It usually makes me jump out of my skin because our buzzer is kinda loud and has about the same pitch as a fire alarm. Aside from that, it wouldn't bother my SA too much because most of the time when someone rings our buzzer it isn't even for us anyway (unless I'm expecting a package). It's usually some inconsiderate twit coming to see one of our neighbors and they press all of the buttons for some unknown reason. So it's just the sudden "RED ALERT!" sound that scares me. I'm jumpy anyway.
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post #6 of 14 (permalink) Old 11-19-2020, 06:10 PM Thread Starter
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Thank you all for replying! I'm glad I'm not the only one! I feel so much more relieved now. This place is amazing so far! It feels so good to finally relate to people that has SA.
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Hey welcome to SAS! I feel the same way when someone comes up to our front door unexpectedly, I dread having to go answer. The mail man used to ring the bell and wait for us to sign for things but now a days just leaves packages on the front porch because of covid rules.
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Door knocks are the worst. I check the peephole in case it's my apartment manager, but usually it's evil kids or advertisers/preachers (nice thing about 2020 is there's less of those). Makes me panic and hide for a little bit. And then I'm on guard for it in the back of my mind for a week.

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Lol. I get so scared they will return.
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post #10 of 14 (permalink) Old 11-20-2020, 01:22 AM
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Don't get a lot of people knocking on the door in my building. In my experience it's better to ignore it - unless it's the police.

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I hate it! I go into stealth mode. Turn the tv off, hide out of view of the windows, etc.

Sometimes my mind don't shake and shift, but most of the time it does.
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Hi and welcome to the site @ShyVegan . I'm basically a newcomer too.🙂👋

Yes, my freaking out at the door knock seems to have evolved somewhat into getting a bit angry and wanting to shout "Go away! I'm not interested in talking to you!" Or something like that. That must be progress on my part - becoming a grumpy old man. 😂👍
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post #14 of 14 (permalink) Old 11-21-2020, 06:30 AM
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Welcome to SAS!

Receiving a parcel has become more dreadful now that they take a photo as proof of delivery. I have to take it when no one else is home. If it's not expected, I drop everything and be quiet.

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if we can carpenter a home in our heart right now
and carve a palace from within."



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