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View Poll Results: Have you ever been called cute or adorable?
I am a girl, and I have. 31 40.79%
I am a girl, and I haven't. 3 3.95%
I am a guy, and I have. 32 42.11%
I am a guy, and I haven't. 10 13.16%
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post #1 of 83 (permalink) Old 11-28-2015, 12:21 PM Thread Starter
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Have you ever been called cute? (Poll added)


How many times? How did it make you feel?

I've had some girls call me cute and adorable. Only in recent months, though, and the past year. I haven't had any guys call me cute, though, at least not yet. But there was a guy a couple months ago that had a crush on me and told me I turned him on a lot. So there's that, I guess.

When they first told me, I just told myself all the negative possibilities, but I've been trying to be more accepting of compliments lately.
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I'm going to say yes but really I'm too old for cute, pretty yes. Cute, no. I'm comfortable with it.
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I've been called cute by some girls back in high school.

Adorable? Only as a kid.

It felt pretty good, though I like being complimented more on how I am on the inside rather than how I look on the outside...
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Yes. Most of the time it's jokingly by my lady coworkers if I say something funny, or something along those lines.
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A few times, all recently with minor exceptions.

I've also been called hideous by total strangers before, so it makes me feel very confused to be honest. I never know how to respond, as it feels as though if I accept the compliment I'll look big-headed or silly because I always feel it's just said out of pity, or that I'm overly negative and distrustful if I question them over what they're saying.

The best thing, I think, is for me to politely say thank you and stop myself from making it awkward by biting my lip and refraining from calling them crazy or liars.
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A few times, all recently with minor exceptions.

I've also been called hideous by total strangers before, so it makes me feel very confused to be honest. I never know how to respond, as it feels as though if I accept the compliment I'll look big-headed or silly because I always feel it's just said out of pity, or that I'm overly negative and distrustful if I question them over what they're saying.

The best thing, I think, is for me to politely say thank you and stop myself from making it awkward by biting my lip and refraining from calling them crazy or liars.
Who cares if someone thinks you're unattractive? I have been called ugly too. I don't care if you think I'm ugly. If someone says you're pretty accept the compliment. No, you don't look silly or big headed. You look like a confident young lady.
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Yes, but only by other girls. I'm not lesbian unfortunately.
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Wherever you are right now, youíre just taking a break
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I've been called both cute and adorable. I think mostly people are trying to be nice... but whatever, I'll take it.

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I think the last time someone called me cute, was when I was angry. Just to rattle the cage, yno?
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cute is very offensive to men.
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cute is very offensive to men.
It is. I feel as if my dominance isn't being asserted properly every time I'm called cute.
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I'm going to say yes but really I'm too old for cute, pretty yes. Cute, no. I'm comfortable with it.
When I think of cute I think of babies, or a particular behavior a woman can have

So, yes you can be cute
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