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post #1 of 109 (permalink) Old 06-06-2020, 12:23 PM Thread Starter
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Do you consider yourself good looking?


I wouldn't at all
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Am I good looking? Nah

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Had quite a few people told me to my face in the past, that my personality doesn't match up at all to my looks. No clue wtf that meant.

Eventually I started to realize most are probably just disappointed and let down with how sh1tty and let down I am based on my personality. Or maybe myself as a character. I am just much less interesting compared to the average person. Or maybe I'm cold and very unopened. Mostly it's due to my self insecurity, of course I cannot tell others that. Also maybe they know of this and self insecurity is seen as a turn-off. Because it means you are not that perfect appealing image that is expected with social norms.

Regardless, I think most can agree plainly and simply that I just suck as a person and human being.

The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.

Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.
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I scrub up well. I don't quite live up to the societal beauty standards (partly by choice and partly not), but I'm just about teetering on the average. Which means that my appearance neither opens doors nor shuts them, and that's a reasonably comfortable place to be in.

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Nobody considers me good looking.

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i dont know!!! im sometimes prettier than anyone! and sometimes kind of uggy? i dont know i suffer from looks problems it ****ing ruined my life i have real dread of being ugly it gives me real suffering and depressing dispharia!! >< i also have forever acne ruined skin since 2nd grade!!!! how tf i can get help??
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post #11 of 109 (permalink) Old 06-07-2020, 04:47 AM
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Nobody considers me good looking.

hey i think i saw you one time in your avatar i think that you were very good looking :>
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Average to slightly above average, some women have called me good looking before. Definitely not ugly, I don't feel anything other than average in the looks but more importantly I can't use that as an excuse for my lack of dating.
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Had quite a few people told me to my face in the past, that my personality doesn't match up at all to my looks. No clue wtf that meant.

Eventually I started to realize most are probably just disappointed and let down with how sh1tty and let down I am based on my personality. Or maybe myself as a character. I am just much less interesting compared to the average person. Or maybe I'm cold and very unopened. Mostly it's due to my self insecurity, of course I cannot tell others that. Also maybe they know of this and self insecurity is seen as a turn-off. Because it means you are not that perfect appealing image that is expected with social norms.

Regardless, I think most can agree plainly and simply that I just suck as a person and human being.
I really doubt that's true.

I'm getting old - but I used to look alright I guess. Nowadays I go into the change-rooms in department stores and when I see my reflection in the mirrors my first reaction is to laugh. It's actually quite funny what time does to us all.
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Maybe above average but age and mental illness taking their toll. Used to get positive comments on my looks but was extremely self critical anyway. Have never been in a relationship but probably have been treated nicer just based on looking pleasant.
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hey i think i saw you one time in your avatar i think that you were very good looking :>
I'm afraid you've confused me with someone else. I've never posted an image of my face. No one here knows what I look like.

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I'm getting old - but I used to look alright I guess. Nowadays I go into the change-rooms in department stores and when I see my reflection in the mirrors my first reaction is to laugh. It's actually quite funny what time does to us all.

Just a phase of life. I just see it as all of the experience and wisdom you have gathered.

The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.

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I'm afraid you've confused me with someone else. I've never posted an image of my face. No one here knows what I look like.
i see ok but i think youre better looking than you think anyway
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post #20 of 109 (permalink) Old 06-08-2020, 03:14 PM
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No. I might have been marginally OK looking at one time but if I was, nobody ever said so. I assume that meant what it usually means when people do not comment on your looks at all.
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