I feel you, OP. I didn't have a Facebook and now feel I've been forced to join it because of the activities I'm involved in. It's Facebook or you don't participate in the conversation/dont' find out about the events/don't have social exchanges. And it sucks, hard. I've added no people as friends, didn't fill in a profile, didn't add a picture, created an account under a fake name, and yet it's still annoying as hell.
Leonard Cohen (Bird on a Wire): I have tried in my own way to be free
Mrs Hudson (BBC Sherlock): Sherlock! The mess you've made!