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post #501 of 520 (permalink) Old 07-08-2019, 07:23 PM
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As a kid my parents told me professional photographers asked them if they could take pictures of me for fashion magazines! Since I wash way too shy and scared of the unknown it never happened. Story of my life...
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I think I'm ugly because not enough women tell me I look good. So over all I pretty sure I'm unattractive.
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Hello fellow uglies.

I’m ugly and it bothers me most of the time. My husband tells me I’m beautiful all the time? But that’s just what he’s supposed to do. I have days where I’m confident either don’t care what people think or feeling like I’m the ****. Those days are often snatched away by someone staring with a screwed face or looking away really fast after being caught gawking at my ugly mug for too long. Feels good to be amongst people who share in the same feeling.
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Are we posting pictures or what?
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Are we posting pictures or what?
I'm not.

If you want to post a picture, go here.

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.....You could post a picture with a Snapchat filter or something & take it down again : /






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I read a lot of these responses and found some of them funny and some sad. One thing about people with SA is a lot of us are self aware and self deprecating. That in and of itself is beautiful.
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Are we posting pictures or what?

Omg no. It’d make people sick if I did that. Bad enough I feel guilty that everyone has to see me every day as I know I make them nauseous
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.....You could post a picture with a Snapchat filter or something & take it down again : /
Yeah, not going to do that, thanks.

If people post pictures in this thread, here's what will happen:

* people with BDD, who are not actually ugly, will post pictures looking for reassurance (not criticizing; BDD is a serious OCD spectrum disorder, and that's just part of it);
* with perhaps the rare exception, people who are ugly won't post pictures, because they're not seeking reassurance;
* other people will look at the thread and conclude: "See, they're all just exaggerating. None of these people are ugly." (bad data -> wrong conclusions);
* thread will turn into a BDD support thread and I'll have to read crap about how everyone is beautiful and I'll have to stop posting in it, lol

This is already the only "ugly people" thread I know of online where that hasn't happened yet.

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@truant ... Yes you have to do what you feel is right for you above all else, you're well experienced on how people are but I don't think anyone here really cares if you're ugly, you seem pretty enough where it matters, most probably wouldn't mind having a face to attach to the often well written, insightful posts, don't judge a book by its cover XD






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.....You could post a picture with a Snapchat filter or something & take it down again : /
Yeah, not going to do that, thanks.

If people post pictures in this thread, here's what will happen:

* people with BDD, who are not actually ugly, will post pictures looking for reassurance (not criticizing; BDD is a serious OCD spectrum disorder, and that's just part of it);
* with perhaps the rare exception, people who are ugly won't post pictures, because they're not seeking reassurance;
* other people will look at the thread and conclude: "See, they're all just exaggerating. None of these people are ugly." (bad data -> wrong conclusions);
* thread will turn into a BDD support thread and I'll have to read crap about how everyone is beautiful and I'll have to stop posting in it, lol

This is already the only "ugly people" thread I know of online where that hasn't happened yet.

Ok. Let’s not post pictures. Lol I didn’t give my post that much forethought.
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@truant ... Yes you have to do what you feel is right for you above all else, you're well experienced on how people are but I don't think anyone here really cares if you're ugly, you seem pretty enough where it matters, most probably wouldn't mind having a face to attach to the often well written, insightful posts, don't judge a book by its cover XD
Now if only pretty on the inside could get me dates, lol.

I guess I'm just cynical about "not judging a book by its cover". I have enough trouble getting people to talk to me as it is. I don't need any more handicaps than I have. I'd rather have people picturing a more attractive person behind the posts than actually exists.

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Ok. Let’s not post pictures. Lol I didn’t give my post that much forethought.
Oh hey, don't worry about it. It's just how I feel. People can (and should) do what they want. I don't own the thread.

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Yeah, I agree with truant. People who are legitimately considered 'ugly' won't actually bother with posting a photo of themeselves. I know I won't be. The rare few who'd do as such would probably still get people saying "you're not ugly" or "you're beautiful"...either in the form of someone misguidedly thinking they're being helpful or a troll.

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I wouldn’t ever post a pic because this forum is the only place I can admit how I really feel about myself (no one knows). And I’m way too ugly to post anything - I wouldn’t do that to anyone!
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When you're dumb and useless with no redeeming qualities and a rubbish personality too lol .




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When you're dumb and useless with no redeeming qualities and a rubbish personality too lol .




Totally with you on that. Personally I don’t mind, as I’ve accepted it.
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post #518 of 520 (permalink) Old 08-02-2019, 01:52 AM
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I am the ugliest man in the world. I feed bad when people have to look at me.
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post #519 of 520 (permalink) Old 08-02-2019, 02:16 AM
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I don't consider myself ugly, nor beautiful. One thing is for sure though, I will never ever post a picture online because I'm paranoia and I don't want to be recognized by someone that knows me in real life. I understand the chance of that is extremely slim but my brain thinks differently
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I am the ugliest man in the world. I feed bad when people have to look at me.

That’s exactly how I feel. I was actually pleased I needed glasses and along with a baseball cap I thought it would lessen the effect my ugliness has on others. Sadly I’m even more grotesque than ever.
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