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What are Your Long Term Goals?


What are some goals that you would like to accomplish in the future? What would you like your life to look like in the future?

This thread is to help encourage user to keep their dreams in mind.
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Some of my goals are:
-live outside of the US
-love again
-help the environment /work for a conservation job
-live independently (financially and emotionally)
-have a spiritual, fun, and open loving family
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What are some goals that you would like to accomplish in the future? What would you like your life to look like in the future?

This thread is to help encourage user to keep their dreams in mind.
- To be more skilled at art
- To be self-employed
- To be healthier and lose a bunch of weight
- To get my life more in order
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1. Marriage
2. Lots of sex
3. Move
4. Climb up the corporate ladder? Financial security

Yes. I wish I could put chuldren on this list but seeing that my love life is practically non-existent, I'll aim for the sex first

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. ~Dale Carnegie
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- Eating healthy, loosing some weight and becoming stronger with workouts and strength training
- Become very skilled at Art
- Learning 3D software and Zbrush
- Making a living as a freelancer in graphic design, illustration and concept art
- Writing novels and short stories
- Traveling
- Making new friends who understand me
- being confident, carefree and happy


...too optimistic goals, right?
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~ Get my sleeve tattoo I've always wanted
~ Get a girlfriend with pretty eyes

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- Get down to a Size 4 dress size (i.e. lose 20 pounds and keep it off!)
- to maintain a healthy lifestyle, and to do it for myself, not for anyone else, or to get guys to like me.(working out 1/2 an hour each day/eat healthier)
- Get to a point where I'm more confident in my social skills and don't beat myself up about it when I mess up in conversation
- Get to a point where I'm comfortable with my body and stop loathing/despising it
-Reach a point where I'm happy with myself/my hobbies/interests(i.e. love myself) so that I DON'T NEED a man in my life to love me to feel good about myself- that is when I would actually be ready to have someone in my life.
- To strengthen my faith in God and to know for sure what I believe in

"I'm learning to BREATHE,... I'm living again, awake and alive. I'm dying to breathe in these abundant skies" ~Switchfoot

Be confident. Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others and wishing to be something we aren't. Everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is only when we accept everything you are- and aren't- that you will truly succeed.
^^ working on it.
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My top 3 long term goals are:

-Graduate from college.
-Move to Canada.
-To love and actually be loved in return someday.

The first two are gonna take a few years to accomplish, but I feel like I'm on the right track. I think figuring out what will truly make you happy is half the battle.
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Caught in the past searching for a false future - Me

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1. finish college
2. get job
3. move to canada
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  • Finish my Paramedic license
  • Get some good work experience that will make me a good candidate for Paramedicine in a place of beauty (doesn't matter which country or location).
  • Get some land in a beautiful place within a reasonable drive to "civilization" Vistas and some water would be ideal.

I know I'm not cut out for urban living and the whole heavy social scene. Whether it's going to end up as little ole' me, or hopefully with someone else, I just want to be able to be immersed in some natural beauty in an otherwise ugly world.
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finish school
get some job experince
get driver licence
get friends
find love
live in a house hopfully in some other country
have confidence
have self esteem
hopefully I am living my dream in future
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*Buy a house
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*Travel to Japan
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1) A large collection of writing, preferably published but potentially polished and self-published for niche audiences.

2) Get and stay in shape. Keep junk food to a minimum.

3) Reasonably secure job in a field I like.

4) Commandeer one of the programmers I talk to into being half the development for an indie game.

5) Become a polymath.

6) Speak a second language fluently.

7) Teach day classes or tutor people in English, math, or something else.
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Travel more so I can explore more of the world. Financially support myself and live on my own.
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Continue working and save my money to buy a little house in the country.
Create more art.
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