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post #1 of 5 (permalink) Old 04-30-2016, 06:27 AM Thread Starter
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Going out tonight


So I don't really know it it's interesting for you guys to hear about it, but I just feel the need to write it down and maybe someone finds the time to read through this post. And if not, it will already be helpful to simply write my feelings down.

So tonight is this Irish Party in the city. My two best friends and I are absolutely into Irish music and so they asked me if I wanted to go with them. Since the city is not very big and the place where the party takes places is a very small one, they thought it wouldn't be much of a problem to take me there. They know about my anxiety problems btw.

Well anyway I agreed to join them and now I have to go to that parties. Somehow I want to go there because I haven't spent much time with my friends lately, partly because of my SA. But on the otherhand only thinking about tonight totally freaks me out and I really don't know how I'm going to handle this whole party thing. I never go to partys where there are more than three people that I don't know and this time I know only my two best friends.

So my goal is to just go there and enjoy the time with my friends. I'll do it for them, not for me and I hope that I'll come home with a positive feeling so that I can do more such things in the future. Otherwise there will soon be nothing left to do with my friends..

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post #2 of 5 (permalink) Old 04-30-2016, 06:30 AM
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Yeah go for it. Big step for you. I hope you have fun, good luck.

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i hope its gonna be a good experience for you. i also like irish Music and i would also go if they ask me

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Thanks a lot. I'm definitely becoming more and more nervous ^^ Too bad that you can't join us tobi08. Hopefully the music will distract me a little
What about you guys out there? Going to a similar event some time soon? How do you find the courage to do things like that?

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how was it going for you? i dont really have a strategy.... just do it i would say. Accept that its gonna be harder for us than for normal People but its also very rewarding and oftentimes not as bad as it seems.

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