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Take my mom to her doctors appointment.
Get some tea. Go find some shade to sit in my car wasting away playing a phone game and stressing about what to do next.

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Go for a walk to get out of this apartment. Do a bit of exercise. Try to keep busy and not go nuts.
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buy gardening supplies. study and actually get things done.

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I have goals of varying degrees, but there are two things I really want to do tomorrow.

  • Greet more than 20 people at work. Waving or nodding does not count. Must make eye contact and speak audibly.

  • Have an impromptu full length conversation at work. Just randomly start talking to someone about something interesting. If I can distract someone from their work for a little bit, that's good!

I want to become likable and personable. I must grow my social and soft skills.
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I have goals of varying degrees, but there are two things I really want to do tomorrow.

  • Greet more than 20 people at work. Waving or nodding does not count. Must make eye contact and speak audibly.

  • Have an impromptu full length conversation at work. Just randomly start talking to someone about something interesting. If I can distract someone from their work for a little bit, that's good!

I want to become likable and personable. I must grow my social and soft skills.
No, I did not complete the goals I listed above in the past 24 hours. Partially completed the first one. Didn't touch second goal at all.

But that's okay. It's moments like these where I need to build perseverance and resilience. I may or may not complete them in the next 24 hours. If I don't, then they can just roll over to next week. If I do, then good.
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Might try and brush up on my Indonesian and maybe start learning a bit of Thai. May as well do something useful with all this spare time in lockdown.

Plus go for another decent walk.
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My goal for tomorrow is to take a 60 minute walk around my local park, bring corn to feed the ducks and don't full out avoid people. That means no hiding behind trees, no taking the long way around. Make eye contact and smile. I think that's a good start.
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To get 6 hours of productivity in. Doubtful I'll get it, but I'll do my best to get at least 5.
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To get 6 hours of productivity in. Doubtful I'll get it, but I'll do my best to get at least 5.
Hadn't intended to count walking, but with the big walk I took Saturday, got over 6 hours of productivity in.


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For today my goal is to get 3 hours of productivity in
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For today my goal is to get 3 hours of productivity in

Day is not over yet, but there isn't enough time left and not feeling up to it.


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Started out well but let myself get off track. Did less than 3 hours worth

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Getting starting on my plan to do plant an herb garden on the frontyard next to the driveway. Maybe doing some research on what are the best seeds and spices to plant.

The truth is strictly what the ones in power perceives it to be.

Enjoy any good things, even the little and menial ones, as you will never know what impending distresses could descend upon you in a moment.
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Getting starting on my plan to do plant an herb garden on the frontyard next to the driveway. Maybe doing some research on what are the best seeds and spices to plant.

Good luck! Sage, thyme, and chives are pretty easy to grow. Probably a lot of other easy ones but I only have experience growing these herbs from seed. If you do chives might want to grow them in a pot because they will become a weed in your garden. Have heard the same about spearmint getting out of control
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Goal for tomorrow is 3 hours of productivity

Got about 2.5 hours of stuff done, so not too bad.

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Got a little over three hours done. Gardening, cleaning, and a little bit of work on some art projects
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My goal for tomorrow is again 3 hours of productivity.
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Good luck! Sage, thyme, and chives are pretty easy to grow. Probably a lot of other easy ones but I only have experience growing these herbs from seed. If you do chives might want to grow them in a pot because they will become a weed in your garden. Have heard the same about spearmint getting out of control

Just the info I need. Thanks. Read parsley, basil and cilantro are good too. Obviously I didn't get started.

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My goal for tomorrow is again 3 hours of productivity.

Got just under 2 hours of productivity in.
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My goal for today is 6 hours of productivity. Seems kind of stupid when I've not been making my 3 hour goals, but this has been part of a weekly goal and I have about 6 hours left for the week.
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Omg tomoro I have to see a bunch of relatives I havenít seen in a realy long time first I have to clean the heck out of the house and itís already 11pm
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Omg tomoro I have to see a bunch of relatives I havenít seen in a realy long time first I have to clean the heck out of the house and itís already 11pm

Hope everything goes well. Best of luck!
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Hope everything goes well. Best of luck!
Thanks! That was extreme social anxiety provoking, Iv been over seas for a year. Then there was lockdown and today was a celebration day so there was a lot of relatives visiting my grandma that I havenít seen in a long time and weíre all trying to talk to me. I feel like going from two months of no visitors and 1 year of not seeing people I usually see couple times a month to what just happened is cray and I realised the lockdown has made my social anxiety very bad.
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