If my husband did that, I would pack my bags and leave, and I am not kidding about that. There is nothing funny about feeling sick and crampy and having your esophagus burn like you swallowed fire (I am on Prilosec for that). You would think someone's spouse would have a bit more empathy than that.
Honestly when they first met, she was young (22) and immature. People who are that young and immature have no business being married imo. I think she has gotten better recently. I don't think she is intentionally a cruel person or anything.