Alright, so I suppose this is a pretty ridiculous thread, and it will just show how socially incompetent I am, but I will make it anyway.
So I posted a couple weeks ago about a girl in my class with whom I have been talking, but was afraid to ask to hang out. On Saturday she texted me and asked what I was doing that night, and I responded with something like "nothing really, just a movie at my house probably...what about you?" She responded saying "im so bored and was thinking of going to a movie tonight-wanna come?" So I agreed, and we got the details squared away, and I picked her up, drove there, watched the movie and drove her home. This went well I think. I was able to tell stories, make jokes, be witty, etc.
I have an interest in this girl as more than a friend, potentially...not a huge crush or anything, but she's pretty cool and cute. I had no idea how to indicate this, and I have no idea if she has any interest in me in that way, so I tried to steer clear of any sure fire signs I thought of her in that way. For example, I didn't compliment her, didn't pay for her ticket or snacks, didn't touch her (yeah right, like I would've done that anyways :lol), etc. At the end of the night I dropped her off and she thanked me, and said it was fun, and then left.
I am very uncertain about everything here. She mentioned she was "bored" and wanted to see a movie, implying that it was a night where she had nothing else to do, and I was like her Plan D or something. I would like to hang out with her again, but I feel like asking would be out of line or something. And god forbid, if I did something that would imply I like her, I feel like she would be completely weirded out. Maybe that's illogical, but I don't know. I just don't really know where to take it from here. Any thoughts/pointers?
So I posted a couple weeks ago about a girl in my class with whom I have been talking, but was afraid to ask to hang out. On Saturday she texted me and asked what I was doing that night, and I responded with something like "nothing really, just a movie at my house probably...what about you?" She responded saying "im so bored and was thinking of going to a movie tonight-wanna come?" So I agreed, and we got the details squared away, and I picked her up, drove there, watched the movie and drove her home. This went well I think. I was able to tell stories, make jokes, be witty, etc.
I have an interest in this girl as more than a friend, potentially...not a huge crush or anything, but she's pretty cool and cute. I had no idea how to indicate this, and I have no idea if she has any interest in me in that way, so I tried to steer clear of any sure fire signs I thought of her in that way. For example, I didn't compliment her, didn't pay for her ticket or snacks, didn't touch her (yeah right, like I would've done that anyways :lol), etc. At the end of the night I dropped her off and she thanked me, and said it was fun, and then left.
I am very uncertain about everything here. She mentioned she was "bored" and wanted to see a movie, implying that it was a night where she had nothing else to do, and I was like her Plan D or something. I would like to hang out with her again, but I feel like asking would be out of line or something. And god forbid, if I did something that would imply I like her, I feel like she would be completely weirded out. Maybe that's illogical, but I don't know. I just don't really know where to take it from here. Any thoughts/pointers?