Re: I'm going to become a 40 year old virgin.
Originally Posted by deadrun
My own boyfriend told me he won't have sex with me until he's ready. I know I'm not ready, but it's frustrating because he told me he won't have it with me even if I'm fully ready when he's not. I was crying and arguing with him about this last night. He said he won't even if I really wanted it. I got super upset because he had sex with his ex before when they were together. God @#%$. Well, my guy friend told me he'll have sex with me if I become a 40 year old virgin.
I think you're over reacting a little. First off, you said that you weren't ready to have sex with him. Second, if he's not ready to have sex with you, you should respect him on that and not pressure him.
And I think your guy friend was just pulling your chain a little with his comment.