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post #7 of (permalink) Old 07-22-2007, 12:59 PM
tinselhair
 
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Re: re: Forgiveness


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Originally Posted by Maslow
I realized something last night while listening to Jack Kornfield. Although I've tried to forgive the people who hurt me, I still suffer by ruminating about things that happened to me. It occurred to me that I was forgiving the wrong person. It wasn't the other people I was mad at; I was mad at myself for not dealing with the events in a way that fostered my self-respect. I know that I have the ability to deal with difficult situations, but sometimes my anxiety gets the better of me and I lose my dignity. My sleeplessness compounded my problems.

Last night, it occurred to me why forgiving the people who hurt me did make me feel better -- it was me that needed forgiving. I was angry with myself for not handling the situations better. So last night I forgave myself.

... and then I punched myself in the nose and wrestled myself to the ground.
I love your post. And I can relate wholeheartedly. I also am planning to get back into meditation.

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