That's a very strange little cat.
I can tolerate many things - I won't go into the details, I've had a son for 27 years and a wife for 31 years. When you love people you allow for things and try to find a way to deal with how it affects you personally. They have to do the same with me - so it's only fair.
I find it much harder with other people and will sometimes just cut them out of my life - I have enough problems already. It depends.