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post #18 of (permalink) Old 09-17-2019, 02:46 PM Thread Starter
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Originally Posted by Txlips View Post
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I’m gonna post another update because why not
So I’ve been talking to that girl in science more, which is good. Also, today in pe we were walking the track, and I walked with the girls who I’ve been talking to. I’ve think I worked pretty hard today when talking to them. I basically would say what came to my mind, and I would try to start conversations without worrying about saying something stupid, which is what I usually do. I can’t really tell if we’re clicking or not, and I’m still really new at this friend making thing. I don’t really know if they like me, it’s hard to tell as of now.
Anyway, I know I may not have explained this too clearly, so if anyone has any questions, then please ask. I’d love to read through some more advice if anyone has any. Thank youuu
Good job continuing to talk with the girls. Clicking with someone and having chemistry is difficult to judge sometimes. But if they keep talking to you its a very good sign. If they didn't like you they will start avoiding you and not really talk to you. They will just give you one word responses to your questions and not really be interested in chatting. Is there one particular girl you are really interested in or the group of girls as a whole?
I honestly don’t really know. I don’t seem to be clicking with either of the girls, and they already know each other and are friends, so that makes it tough for me to make my way in there. Today in pe, I was hoping maybe they’d say hi to me or maybe just seem more friendly around me. But they didn’t say a word to me. I don’t know if it was really fair for me to just assume that since I talked to them tomorrow, they’d automatically talk to me. But it seems like the only way I can get them to talk to me is if I initiate it... also, they kind of “popular”-ish, so that makes it hard too. They’re not really looking to make friends as much as I am, so they probably aren’t recognizing the fact that I want to become friends with them.
Anyway, the girl in science is really nice, so I think I need to gear more energy towards being her friend over the girls in dance. I can still try with the other girls, though.
I’m just kind of lost lol. I don’t really know what I should do next
sorry if my other post doesn’t really make sense, I meant to say pe, not dance. The pe class I’m in is dance though, but I’ve been referring to it as pe in my posts
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