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post #5 of (permalink) Old 08-31-2019, 06:19 PM Thread Starter
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Originally Posted by andy1984 View Post
seems like this is driven by your choices/perfectionism.
My choices have been to better myself, I was a total state rolling back the clock 2-3 years ago. Yet at the same time why should i have to be the one to bother with people all the time to so much as have a convo with my "friends"? It's a two way stream and shouldn't be one sided. I admit that i have made so many mistakes but this is not perfectionism.

I've been on multiple sites for friendship, while primary dating sites I put on them that i was looking for friendship only and it was either me getting hit on or ignored, to be honest I get why women barley reply on social sites now.

I don't want loads of friends, just a few that i can have a laugh with.

As for the rest of it, my drive & passion is something i've been working on, I'm just in a rut and was asking for help.
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