They keep saying "you must learn to adjust" but its funng how "adjust" for them always means "pushing my fiancee to aside to spend more time with my parents."
They do not respect that "adjust my plans" may sometimes mean "putting my fiancee first"
My first instinct has always been push my relationship to aside to care for my parents and it has hurt my relationship in the past.
And of course even now...as of this AM the message is still "stop stressing myself out"
Well I can stop stressing myself out you know....I can do it by just ignoring their messages when I go out