I've even tried talking to their wives...and it's the same thing:
"Hiring a stranger to care for ur mum is impersonal and cold."
Yea well, that's f*******g easy to say when you are NOT the one who has been in the house caring for her for 2yrs straight on a daily basis !
Being caretaker is a cold cold world. Everybody else slacks off...and guilt trips you whenever you express fatigue.