Well. I self harm as a coping mechanism (not to be recommended)
While you SCREAM at your woman, there's a man, wishing he could talk softly in her ear...
While you HUMILIATE, OFFEND, & INSULT her,
there's a man flirting with her, & reminding her, how wonderful she is.
While you HURT your woman,
there's a man wishing he could show her love
While you make your woman CRY,
there's a man stealing smiles from her.