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post #12 of (permalink) Old 05-15-2019, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted by VIncymon View Post
When people criticize me I agonize over the mistake ...and become so afraid of the mistake that I make the same mistake repeatedly, each time the person become MORE annoyed at me making the mistake.

I realize this is true because whenever I am put into a situation with a person who is encouraging...I do just fine.

How can I overcome this ?
How can I truly learn from mistakes in a way that doesnt damage my self esteem and cause me to spiral into a pit of self-loathing.
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