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post #19 of (permalink) Old 12-17-2017, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Paul View Post
Then it might just be a numbers problem. Hardly anybody dates one of the first 3 desirable people who they become facebook friends with. They befriend dozens before they find one whose circumstances and goals and personality and so forth are compatible, and they deepen the friendship by hanging out in person.
Yeah, the only way I ever got a boyfriend is by going to bars every week for many months and talking to hundreds of guys. I wish you could just chat up 3 people and one would become a long-term relationship....
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