Hi all. I know I am many years late, but I guess these problems pop up for us all, no matter when.
I read everything posted here, and know that I am not alone. Been with my girlfriend for 18 months, but in the last 2 I have gotten so needy, clingy, insecure and anxious! She hasn't really given me a reason to be, except for getting a bit distant for a month or so. And we discussed it at length. All is good. So why do I stress when she doesn't text me 20 minutes after telling me she loves me? This has to stop. For the record, I have not let her see this side of me. For the most part. But the pain has to stop!
I hope all of you who came before me are at peace now!