It's the same reality we live in. Just a better side of it. Like living in a good neighborhood instead of the bad neighborhood, they're both still in the same city. It's not like you go up North street and all of a sudden you're in Narnia ffs.
As much as I sympathize with people like IvoeryIvy, I'd rather be in her position than in mine. She is always in demand and has lots of options, even if many are bad & disingenuous they aren't 100% bad. It isn't all men just looking to screw her and all women hating her because she is prettier. As opposed to me being marginally attractive and passed over for more beautiful guys, I'd trade places with her in a heartbeat and reap the rewards.
When it comes down to it, it's just a chemical reaction people get in their heads when they glance at you. Are you just another face in the crowd, or do you stand out?