Wait. "dying alone and never experiencing love" - what kind of "fact" is that? You accept yourself to be able to move on with your life and enjoy what it has to offer regardless of your shortcomings, not to sit at your home all day not taking any chances. Giving up and accepting yourself are actually 2 opposite things, not synonyms.
It is the same thing, you assume that life will 'offer' you things as soon as you accept yourself, and I don't.