Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Everybody Love Everybody-land
I never really liked it. It's basically just trial and error like you're expected to endure while growing up.
The real key is establishing a sustainable lifestyle where you're comfortable with a personality to present when socializing among others. Otherwise, you're always on edge because you're afraid that people will see through you.
I guess it works better with upper class people who already have this and simply need to get out there. Lower class people need cultural immersion as well for this to work.